TeacherServer.com
Home | How It Works | Stats
Login | Register
     
 
Topic Go Back
 
     
     
 
Case
Posted on March 12, 2023 12:22 am
Add to Favorites Add to Favorites

yDapem
yDapem
Reps: 200
Maintaining an authoritative position
As educators, it is difficult to not over impose authority over children, as it is difficult to not be their friends.

As an educator, I find this to be complicated. What solutions do you propose?
 
     
     
 
Reply Submit a Possible Solution
Please read response(s) below (if any) before posting your solution.
 
     
     
 
Solution 1
Posted September 24, 2023 5:55 pm

eVubez
eVubez
Reps: 54
I found that children respond to teachers that are authoritative during lessons, but can allow their guard down during down time (recess, play centers, lunch time, craft time). I taught kindergarten so I had to be tough during instruction time but would hang out with the kids during their play center time, and draw with them. During lunch I would make sure they were all okey before going to take my lunch whether it was to open yogurts or help them grab their items during the hot food line. I wanted them to know I cared when I didn't have to. It was the way I could show them how human I was and was willing to be there at any time. I feel like that gave them the comfort that I wasn't mean or a dictator during lessons. It's easy to be tough all the time because most young children will take kindness for weakness but as long as there is a boundary during class time, they will have more respect for your authority.
Votes: +4 / -0 Vote Up This Solution Is Useful   Vote Down This Solution Is Not Useful  

Comments posted for this solution

Reply Add a Comment
 
     
     
 
Solution 2
Posted April 2, 2023 5:42 pm

atyraQ
atyraQ
Reps: 203
Firstly, you must keep it professional. Yes, your students should see you as their friend you just have to keep that professional and make sure that it does not make you easily taken advantage of. If your students are too comfortable they will more than likely take advantage of that fact. You have to make sure that there are still repercussions for not being the best student they can be.
Votes: +2 / -0 Vote Up This Solution Is Useful   Vote Down This Solution Is Not Useful  

Comments posted for this solution

Reply Add a Comment
 
     
     
 
Solution 3
Posted October 3, 2023 4:04 pm

aMadup
aMadup
Reps: 100
Being able to balance authority and friendship is essential for educators. Keep classroom rules and regulations consistent and clear, making sure that students understand the boundaries. Create long-lasting relationships by demonstrating real concern, active listening, and compassion. Encourage open dialogue so that kids feel free to express their worries.
Votes: +2 / -0 Vote Up This Solution Is Useful   Vote Down This Solution Is Not Useful  

Comments posted for this solution

Reply Add a Comment
 
     
     
 
Solution 4
Posted October 3, 2023 5:29 pm

aSyLyt
aSyLyt
Reps: 201
Setting clear boundaries is important in any settings. It is also important to show respect for your students life outside of school. I would make boundaries for yourself. Maybe things that you will talk about vs things you will absolutely not mention.
Votes: +0 / -0 Vote Up This Solution Is Useful   Vote Down This Solution Is Not Useful  

Comments posted for this solution

Reply Add a Comment
 
     
     
 
Reply Submit a Possible Solution
Please read response(s) below (if any) before posting your solution.