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Case: Basketball Team- Similar Case
I coached a high school womens basketball team. Several players on the team were openly lesbians. Throughout the course of four years, more and more players "came out." I heard several rumors that one player, Chelsea, was approaching another player, Sarah, and wanting to "date" her. Sarah was not a lesbian and politely handled the matter by simply saying no. After several no's, Chelsea began punishing Sarah on the basketball court. She would not pass Sarah the ball, set picks for Sarah, and continously complain that Sarah wasn't doing her job. Since Chelsea was the leader of the team and of the lesbian group, the other lesbian players treated Sarah the same. It's not fair to Sarah to allow the other players to treat her this way, but I can't call attention to the lesbians without them thinking I'm discriminating.How do I handle this situation?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
There are definitely good and productive ways that this can be handled. I would sit everyone down and just explain what I am noticing on the court. I wouldn't state any assumptions but just the facts. I would then get them to explain why it is happening. Once they explained what was happening, I would tell a scenario similar to what was going on but using different people groups. Maybe explain a situation where people were discriminating against someone because of their race. I would then relate this to the current situation. I would also explain that is has nothing to do with sexual preference because if the roles were reversed we would still be having the same discussion. Discrimination is discrimination no matter what the reasoning. If it continued to be a problem, I would discuss it with their parents. |
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| Rated On: February 26, 2013 10:21 am |
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| Rated On: March 2, 2013 11:51 pm |
| Rated By: eruHeB |
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| Rated On: March 3, 2013 8:11 pm |
| Rated By: yTuGyd |
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| Comments: I agree! Excellent. |
| Rated On: October 17, 2014 6:58 pm |
| Rated By: TuBuJy |
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| Comments: These are good ideas. Maybe hearing a similar scenario will open their eyes and make them realize why what they're doing isn't right. |
| Rated On: October 19, 2014 5:27 pm |
| Rated By: Kayla Campbell |
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| Comments: I agree, addressing everyone is a safer way to fix the problem rather than singling people out. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2015 7:38 pm |
| Rated By: aNaQev |
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| Comments: I like this idea because you are making the students explain their behavior, instead of accusing them. I also like the idea of explaining to them what you have been observing on the courts. I feel like this gives them an opportunity to really think about and reflect on their behavior. |
| Rated On: February 28, 2015 2:29 am |
| Rated By: Hannah Poore |
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| Comments: talking about it as discrimination is a good idea. |
| Rated On: March 1, 2015 4:33 pm |
| Rated By: eLuLeD |
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| Comments: Excellent solution with step by step procedure. |
| Rated On: March 2, 2015 11:44 pm |
| Rated By: eWeHaz |
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| Comments: Good idea for a delicate situation! |
| Rated On: March 10, 2015 3:07 pm |
| Rated By: qaqeHy |
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| Comments: I feel like this is less of a discrimination problem and more of a bullying problem. |
| Rated On: October 3, 2016 4:41 pm |
| Rated By: yVuRaR |
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| Comments: yes! |
| Rated On: March 6, 2017 3:15 am |
| Rated By: jyvubu |
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| Comments: great handling of the situation |
| Rated On: October 16, 2017 2:13 am |
| Rated By: yReNyp |
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| Comments: Great solution, I think if the problems continue to take it to the Parents. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2017 5:27 am |
| Rated By: yPeMug |
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| Comments: dumbledore would approve |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 11:09 pm |
| Rated By: uXysej |
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| Rated On: October 9, 2018 2:23 am |
| Rated By: pagyDa |
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| Comments: I like the thinking. |
| Rated On: October 12, 2018 3:54 pm |
| Rated By: uTaGuv |
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| Comments: i agree |
| Rated On: October 27, 2018 7:16 pm |
| Rated By: Carla Crumb |
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| Comments: This is a useful solution. discussing with the entire team the importance of teamwork and that the consequences of their actions can be harmful to the overall success of the team. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 9:25 pm |
| Rated By: Keith Evans |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2020 8:20 pm |
| Rated By: Jennifer Overbey |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. |
| Rated On: October 31, 2021 2:42 pm |
| Rated By: Pearl Reberkenny |
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| Comments: This is a good way to handle this situation. |
| Rated On: November 11, 2022 9:28 pm |
| Rated By: nemuLy |
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| Comments: Great solution, I agree! |
| Rated On: October 7, 2023 12:56 am |
| Rated By: bequja |
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