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  Case: Relationship Advice???
My students say that I am very personable and approachable. They feel as if they can talk to me about anything. One student asked if they could talk to me and I said of course. She began to tell me about this boy that she really liked and began asking me for relationship advice. I didn't feel comfortable talking to her because I thought it would be me getting too personal with a student. Is this wrong to talk to our students about things outside of the school?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I would tell them that I can always listen to your stories, but with my job, sometimes I can answer and help you but sometimes I cannot. Listen to the problem but use your judgement concerning if you can answer or help.
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I think it's important to let the student know the truth, which is that sometimes you can help, but other times you cannot. Listening to the student is supportive, and will help you, as the teacher, to connect them to other resources at times when you cannot help.
Rated On: February 25, 2018 6:02 am
Rated By: eguPud