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  Case: Smelly Kid
I guess I am still considered a novice teacher because I have been teaching for four years only. I am an elementary school teacher who teaches in a mostly White suburban setting. Couple of weeks ago a new student joined my classroom. He and his parents recently moved from Eastern Europe. His father works at the local university as a music professor. I am not sure what his mother does. He is a wonderful child. Although he speaks little English, he tries to participate in class activities and to make friends with others in the classroom. Couple days after he arrived, I noticed a strange smell around him. I was sure that it was body odor. The other students in the classroom started noticing it too. They started making fun of him. I learned in my multicultural classes when I was at the university that not all cultures promote taking showers everyday, and that body odor is not considered a problem everywhere in the world. Now I have a big dilemma. If I tell my student about it, I might embarrass him. If I sent a note to his parents, I may appear disrespectful toward their culture. But the way he is treated in the classroom by the other students is becoming a real problem. What should I do?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I would call the parents in for a conference and explain the situation to them. I would open with how well their son is doing in the class and maybe even show them some of his work. I would talk about how pleased I was with his work and progress in the class, and then explain that I was worried that if something wasn't done, their son may be hurt by his peers teasing them. I would talk to them about how Americans shower more frequently than other countries, and that the other students have started to notice that there son does not bathe as frequently. I would then talk with the parents about how they would like to address the problem.