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Case: I Love Your Brown Skin
I have a little student in my class that is already infatuated with girls. As I am sitting in the rocking chair teaching, he will rub my legs and express to me how he loves brown skin. I redirected him and he was doing better, so I thought. I p.e. he tries to kiss little girls and tell them how pretty they are. I teach kindergarten. What are some positive ways I can redirect him without making him feel embarrassed for having a crush?
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Without singling out the student, now is the time to present a lesson on personal space and boundaries. There is a great book titled "Personal Space Camp" by Julia Cook where a young boy is taught about personal space using hula hoops. Not only will you be able to promote reading, but it will be a wonderful way to do a whole group hands-on activity in the classroom with your own hula hoops! |
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Comments: I like the idea of making it a lesson on personal space. The use of the book and the hula hoops will engage the student and everyone will learn about personal space. |
Rated On: October 3, 2015 2:11 am |
Rated By: Tamupy |
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Comments: Using the book is a great suggestion!
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Rated On: October 4, 2015 12:35 am |
Rated By: uZyvaP |
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Comments: This solution is a great idea! I absolutely love it! |
Rated On: October 4, 2015 8:41 pm |
Rated By: Alyssa McGee |
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Comments: Personal space is the most important factor in this situation. It is ok to appreciate others, but you do not others to feel uncomfortable during this appreciation. |
Rated On: October 15, 2015 1:36 am |
Rated By: uXyRyd |
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Comments: I believe that this is the first step I would take in trying to solve this case. |
Rated On: October 17, 2015 8:48 pm |
Rated By: ezuXuD |
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Comments: This is great. It not only addresses the little boy, but the class as a whole. He won't feel singled out and will understand that what he is doing is wrong. |
Rated On: October 18, 2015 4:27 am |
Rated By: Miranda Kuhn |
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Comments: Turning this into a lesson for all the students is a great idea! |
Rated On: October 18, 2015 5:27 am |
Rated By: zaLyju |
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Comments: I agreed. |
Rated On: October 18, 2015 3:16 pm |
Rated By: buHeNy |
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Comments: I love this ides. I also think you could teach the child a better way to show his affection like a high five. |
Rated On: October 18, 2015 8:11 pm |
Rated By: Qanuna |
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Comments: I really like this solution. A "Personal Space Camp" activity sounds like it'd be fun and beneficial to the class. |
Rated On: October 18, 2015 8:14 pm |
Rated By: eVaVeH |
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Comments: This method offers a way to teach the young boy that his behavior is inappropriate without singling him out |
Rated On: October 18, 2015 10:36 pm |
Rated By: eXyzyS |
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Comments: Great idea! I like how you said not to single out the one student. |
Rated On: November 2, 2015 4:07 am |
Rated By: yvesat |
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Comments: Love this solution! Not only are they learning the lesson fro a book they can also do games on it as you said. Which will keep all the students very involved. |
Rated On: March 3, 2016 1:55 pm |
Rated By: uMyQeX |
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Comments: I think this will help a lot. If you do a lesson as a class all together then it isn't singling one student out. |
Rated On: March 5, 2016 4:55 pm |
Rated By: habyRa |
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Comments: Love the idea of turning it into a lesson for the entire class. |
Rated On: March 6, 2016 1:04 am |
Rated By: uPuneq |
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Comments: Agreed, find another way without singling out the student. |
Rated On: March 6, 2016 4:00 pm |
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Comments: Great idea! |
Rated On: March 7, 2016 2:25 am |
Rated By: usudaX |
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Comments: Great idea! |
Rated On: October 9, 2016 1:49 am |
Rated By: seqeJe |
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Comments: I like that you suggested to use a book to teach everyone about personal space |
Rated On: October 10, 2016 3:14 am |
Rated By: eZeLeR |
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Comments: Great solution |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 12:47 pm |
Rated By: sazaXa |
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Comments: “If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this” |
Rated On: March 2, 2017 3:42 am |
Rated By: eVeQat |
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Comments: Great solution! |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 2:37 pm |
Rated By: jyvubu |
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Comments: I think this is a good solution and I would use it in my classroom. If it persists further, I would involve parents and administration. |
Rated On: March 6, 2017 2:49 am |
Rated By: aGeteb |
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Comments: This is a great book! I would do the exact same thing. |
Rated On: July 7, 2017 3:52 am |
Rated By: eRahyR |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would do this because a book is a good guide for students to learn social boundaries, it could set an example for this student. |
Rated On: October 11, 2017 10:06 pm |
Rated By: NaGava |
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Comments: This could help but it sounds like a problem that needs to be further addressed. |
Rated On: October 16, 2017 12:32 am |
Rated By: QeZyqa |
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Comments: I love hands on activities especially for young students and its a fun way to incorporate boundaries. |
Rated On: October 16, 2017 2:13 am |
Rated By: LuXaSe |
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Comments: I really liked your solution |
Rated On: February 20, 2018 11:38 pm |
Rated By: zevuBa |
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Comments: I love this lesson idea |
Rated On: February 24, 2018 7:42 pm |
Rated By: upyWyH |
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Comments: I agree |
Rated On: February 26, 2018 4:27 am |
Rated By: PeMuQa |
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Comments: i LOVE THE IDEA OF USING THE BOOK TO HELP THE CHILD UNDERSTAND |
Rated On: July 3, 2018 7:43 pm |
Rated By: eReXaG |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. I believe that it is important to try and educate students on a social skill while, at first trying to avoid singling them out and from embarrassing them. If it continues a one-on-one would be appropriate to communicate to the student their actions are inappropriate and to explain how the student can show they care in other ways that are appropriate for school. |
Rated On: October 7, 2018 10:39 pm |
Rated By: zazyny |
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Comments: This is a great solution because of how hands on it is. |
Rated On: October 11, 2018 6:47 pm |
Rated By: yhezuS |
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Comments: I agree, personal space and consent lessons need to be taught without singling him out |
Rated On: October 14, 2018 6:46 pm |
Rated By: aVugaG |
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Comments: This is a great idea for this age. |
Rated On: February 22, 2019 7:27 pm |
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Comments: This is a great solution. |
Rated On: February 23, 2019 12:29 am |
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Comments: this is a good idea |
Rated On: February 23, 2019 7:50 pm |
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Comments: I love this solution! Books are a great way to help a student realize what he is doing but not be pointed out. |
Rated On: February 24, 2019 9:39 pm |
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Rated On: February 25, 2019 1:06 am |
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Comments: This is a great Idea! |
Rated On: October 20, 2019 8:07 pm |
Rated By: Anastasia Stampoulis |
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Comments: I love the idea of teaching boundaries! I also think this is odd and may need to be brought up to the parents because kindergarden children shouldnt really be that sexual... |
Rated On: October 18, 2020 11:15 pm |
Rated By: ezesaL |
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Comments: I really like this solution because they can also be active in this lesson. |
Rated On: April 1, 2022 8:11 pm |
Rated By: eSysyv |
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Comments: agree |
Rated On: April 14, 2022 2:08 am |
Rated By: geTuPa |
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Comments: I think the activity is a great idea to help teach personal space without making one student feel singled out |
Rated On: November 10, 2022 8:20 am |
Rated By: muWyZy |
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Comments: This solution is great because it's not only fixing the problem, but having the student learn and read as well. I like how it emphasizes not singling out the student for feeling this way. He just needs to know how to control it. |
Rated On: March 29, 2023 4:11 am |
Rated By: XereRa |
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