Home | How It Works | Stats Login | Register         Case: Assistant Principal Parent I have one student who has no motivation whatsoever. He is EBD and OBD, but his parents refuse to have him served. He does not care about his work, gets extremely angry when I try to help him, and just shrugs his shoulders when I show him what all these 0s are doing for his grade. His father is an assistant principal in our county and constantly tries to belittle me. His son's grades are ALWAYS my fault. I need to break up the assignments for him. I need to make a checklist for him. I need to write down his assignments in his planner for him. I need to let him retake the test as many times as it takes. I need to give him new copies of the assignments and not penalize him for turning them in weeks late. I give in to a lot of these because it is not worth the fight with the parent. The student is still not doing anything, though, even with all of these exceptions. It has even gotten to the point where the dad has asked me to start packing his bookbag for him. The child is very smart. He is eight weeks away from finishing fourth grade. There is no reason I should be having to do all of this stuff for him, and it makes it extremely difficult because when I make these exceptions, they have to be done for the other students as well. I have stopped giving in to a lot of them because I think it is ridiculous that this child is not willing to take any responsibility. I am bending over backwards, and he could not care less. It does not change anything... he still has not completed more than five assignments fully the entire year, which is in turn reflecting on his test scores. Dad is livid, but I have had enough. He is constantly going to the administration about me and threatning to take it to the board, even though I have met all his demands and have spent more than my fair share of time with his child. It is not fair to me or the other students. I have tried everything with this child, including all the incentives the two of us could think of together. Any suggestions? Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!) I'm sorry this is happening. I agree with documenting everything. I would also try to give the student a job like pass out all of the planners etc. Maybe involving him in the activities and making him feel important will help change his mood. Otherwise, I would call a meeting with the parent and the principal. Good luck