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Case: Student Lies and Parents believe him
A special education teacher went into another teachers classroom to watch her class while the teacher went to the restroom. A student was making fun of another student. The special education teacher took the student outside the classroom to address the situation. Once the situation was addressed the student went back into the classroom. The special education teacher took the other student out of the classroom to ask the student exactly what happened. Once the situation was addressed all students returned to the class. The student that was making fun of the other student was wrote up in the previous class that morning, then the SPED teacher wrote him up, and then the general education teacher sent a note to his homeroom teacher to contact his parents because he was being disrespectful in her class. The teacher sent the parents an email and they came to visit him during lunch. The student told the parents that the special education teacher grabbed him by the shirt and spit in his face. The parents went to the principal to talk with her. Then the principal talked with the SPED teacher to get her side of the story. The principal called the father to tell him what she found out from the SPED teacher. The father wanted to take the situation further. So the principal had to conduct interviews with the students in the class to see if that truly happened. All of the students the principal interviewed stated that it didn't happen or they weren't even aware that the SPED teacher was in the classroom because they were doing their work. Each student stated that the student was disrespectful to the teacher, to the students, the student hit other students, lied about other students, etc. Once this was all said and done there was no evidence this actually occurred. The SPED teacher, student, and principal had to write statements about what occurred and it had to be submitted to the assistant superintendent. The SPED teacher is very upset that this took place and now has to be sent to the superintendent. Should the SPED teacher approach the principal about talking with the parent and student?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I would not. It seems this parent is out for blood and the teacher needs a mediator. The principal already tried to do that and it did not help matters. So it is having to go behore the superintendent. If you took matters into your own hands, you could say something that could get misconstrued and be used against you. So I would just leave it in the hands of the superintendent. |
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Comments: I agree, it is best to leave it to the superintendent. That is what I would do. |
Rated On: October 14, 2015 9:38 pm |
Rated By: uJuPyS |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. |
Rated On: October 15, 2015 3:50 am |
Rated By: eZuGeQ |
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Comments: definately get a mediator I have read some very negative outcomes without one. |
Rated On: October 15, 2015 4:49 pm |
Rated By: Robert Hendler |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. |
Rated On: October 15, 2015 8:49 pm |
Rated By: punybu |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this. |
Rated On: October 17, 2015 1:03 am |
Rated By: seqeJe |
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Comments: . |
Rated On: October 17, 2015 3:46 am |
Rated By: RuZyGy |
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Comments: Very good idea and valid points. |
Rated On: October 17, 2015 5:29 pm |
Rated By: qutehu |
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Comments: I agree its not worth it to try and talk to the parent at this point. |
Rated On: October 17, 2015 9:50 pm |
Rated By: yZanaJ |
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Comments: I agree, a mediator is needed. You need to take care of yourself. |
Rated On: October 18, 2015 6:49 pm |
Rated By: ymuXyg |
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Comments: I agree, trying to talk to the student and parents is a bad idea. |
Rated On: October 18, 2015 8:12 pm |
Rated By: Dan G |
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Comments: I agree |
Rated On: February 28, 2016 4:50 am |
Rated By: uVeWar |
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Comments: This is great! Leave it to superintendent. |
Rated On: March 5, 2016 2:25 am |
Rated By: habyRa |
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Comments: Great response! I agree that contacting the parents may make the situation even worse. |
Rated On: March 7, 2016 12:46 am |
Rated By: Cynthia Juez |
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Comments: I agree, thank you for sharing. |
Rated On: March 7, 2016 2:34 am |
Rated By: ReTepy |
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Comments: Great idea |
Rated On: July 11, 2016 3:03 am |
Rated By: yGapeW |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 12:13 am |
Rated By: junuTu |
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Comments: I agree with this solution, a mediator is needed, I would use this solution. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 8:56 pm |
Rated By: Brittany Doxsey |
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Comments: Yes, the superintendent has more power. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 11:34 pm |
Rated By: maPyqa |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, this is exactly what I would do. |
Rated On: March 2, 2017 4:34 am |
Rated By: ybabaJ |
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Comments: Perfect solution |
Rated On: March 4, 2017 3:37 am |
Rated By: jyvubu |
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Comments: This is a great solution. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 6:29 am |
Rated By: Kelsey Lutzi |
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Comments: I agree, the parent is obviously out for blood and nothing that teacher says or does is going to make a difference. Its going to the superintendent regardless |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 9:43 pm |
Rated By: ReRege |
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Comments: Agreed! |
Rated On: October 14, 2017 2:38 am |
Rated By: emetub |
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Comments: I agree with us that sounds like one of these situations where the parent is just trying to get the teacher in trouble because they want their child to be a perfect student one unfortunately that is not always the situation |
Rated On: October 15, 2017 11:43 pm |
Rated By: duPuSa |
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Comments: This is the best solution. The teacher should keep a hands-off approach just to avoid making the situation any worse or turning it all around. |
Rated On: October 11, 2018 3:05 am |
Rated By: eguQep |
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Comments: A mediator is definitely needed at this point. It is a very serious accusation. |
Rated On: October 14, 2018 9:12 pm |
Rated By: yJuhuv |
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Comments: I agree |
Rated On: July 7, 2019 10:00 pm |
Rated By: SeGyHu |
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Comments: This is a great solution. |
Rated On: October 16, 2019 8:38 pm |
Rated By: uPuhuP |
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Comments: I agree. I would not want to make the situation worse if the parent is acting that way. |
Rated On: April 1, 2022 10:02 pm |
Rated By: eSysyv |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. |
Rated On: April 2, 2023 2:38 am |
Rated By: GeduVy |
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Comments: I absolutely agree that the teacher can no longer be expected to interact with this parent and that they need a mediator. |
Rated On: April 3, 2023 1:22 am |
Rated By: TuVune |
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