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Case: Negative Nelly
A co-worker is constantly negative about everything. She never has anything positive to say. She is negative about her students, her co-workers, and her job. During collaboration time with the rest of the grade level teachers, she makes it extremely difficult for everyone to work together. What should I do?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I am experiencing this right now and here's what I did to help. Attempt to foster a relationship to determine what underlying struggles she is experiencing. When I did this, I learned my colleague has many difficult life changes impacting her demeanor. I gave her my cell number and told her I was here for her. After that, her comments improved a bit and I felt comfortable gently calling her on things ("Surely there is one student who is doing the right thing") to make her aware of how she's coming across. |
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: This solution appropriately seeks reasoning behind the negative nelly's behavior and offers assistance to them. It also asks that the teacher kindly call the negative nelly out for negative comments that might be ut of hand in the future. |
Rated On: October 18, 2015 6:39 pm |
Rated By: yJeXad |
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. |
Rated On: February 28, 2016 2:55 am |
Rated By: aTeRaz |
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: Good tip. |
Rated On: March 6, 2016 9:25 pm |
Rated By: anaXan |
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: This is a great solution and a good reminder to think objectively. |
Rated On: October 17, 2016 1:14 am |
Rated By: yJatyt |
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: This would be a good way to help include her in a positive way and try to help change the negatives. |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 2:08 am |
Rated By: baJeTe |
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