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Case: Co-worker trying to tell me how to do my job
This year I was selected as the grade-level chairperson for Kindergarten. Another Kindergarten teacher, new to Kindergarten this year, has been a grade-level chair in first grade. She is constantly behind me "reminding" me to do things and telling me how she used to do things in first grade. How do I tell her that I can handle my responsibilities without coming across as being rude?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
Ask her about her experience when she was grade level chair and she will more than likely tell you that she did not have someone to guide her and that is why she is "reminding you of things". Then in a polite way tell her that you have your way of discovering and learning things just like she did and you appreciate her wisdom and that you will come to her if you have any questions. She will hopefully understand and back down some. She is probably just trying to be helpful and doesn't realize that she is being overbearing. |
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| Comments: This is a great solution because then it will not cause unwanted drama. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2015 5:33 pm |
| Rated By: uJuPyS |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: This is exactly what I would do if I was in this situation. I would be let her know how I feel, but also express my gratitude for her help. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2015 8:45 pm |
| Rated By: ezuXuD |
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| Comments: This solution is exactly how I was approach this situation. I would ask her about her experience because you never know, maybe something she says will be useful. Then to avoid any drama I would tell her I really appreciate everything but I am capable of my responsibilities and you will be glad to ask her for help when you need it. Hopefully she will realize she is being overbearing and take a step back. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2015 1:07 am |
| Rated By: JatePa |
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| Comments: Awesome, thanks for sharing! |
| Rated On: October 15, 2015 1:16 am |
| Rated By: bahete |
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| Comments: Good solution. I think it is essential to try to get to know the new teacher in order to establish a effective working relationship. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2015 6:38 pm |
| Rated By: punybu |
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| Comments: I would try this solution |
| Rated On: October 16, 2015 3:24 pm |
| Rated By: buHeNy |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this.
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| Rated On: October 17, 2015 2:02 pm |
| Rated By: seqeJe |
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| Comments: I would do this. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2015 12:15 am |
| Rated By: Robert Hendler |
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| Comments: Great idea |
| Rated On: October 19, 2015 2:44 am |
| Rated By: azuTen |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. |
| Rated On: February 28, 2016 2:51 am |
| Rated By: aTeRaz |
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| Comments: I feel this is a good solution. It allows you to confront the problem in an appropriate way |
| Rated On: October 12, 2016 11:44 pm |
| Rated By: sammi kocher |
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| Comments: This sounds like a gentle way of explaining that you don't need much more advice and will solicit it when needed. |
| Rated On: October 17, 2016 1:09 am |
| Rated By: yJatyt |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution, this is a good way to tell her to "back off" without being too harsh. |
| Rated On: October 17, 2016 1:36 am |
| Rated By: aLuruz |
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| Comments: This is what I would do in this situation. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2016 8:35 pm |
| Rated By: Daniela |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, this is exactly what I would do. |
| Rated On: March 3, 2017 5:58 am |
| Rated By: udaXuh |
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| Comments: Agreed!! |
| Rated On: July 9, 2017 9:09 pm |
| Rated By: RuWeWe |
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| Comments: good solution |
| Rated On: October 8, 2017 4:25 am |
| Rated By: Gapasa |
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| Comments: I agree that she probably only means to help you. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2017 11:38 pm |
| Rated By: eGabez |
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| Comments: I think this is a good idea |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 2:05 am |
| Rated By: baJeTe |
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| Comments: I agree I think speaking to her about it in a nice manner will hopefully get your point across. |
| Rated On: October 13, 2018 6:45 pm |
| Rated By: Rachel |
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| Comments: I agree, be polite & professional and let her know your concerns. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2019 10:26 pm |
| Rated By: HuraHu |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. It is a very mature way to handle the situation while being civil. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2020 11:39 pm |
| Rated By: RyWaPy |
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