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Case: Inappropriate Questions from a Parent
A parent in our school has approached me multiple times to try and gain information about other teachers and sensitive school related issues. I do not even teach the parent's child, but she is extremely aggressive about asking questions. I have notified my administrator, but nothing has changed. What is the best way to address the issue?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
The next time the parent approaches you I would refer her immediately to an administrator. I would inform her that you are not authorized to give any of that information and put her in contact with an administrator that is better equipped to handle this situation. |
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Comments: A parent seeking information from a third party like this teacher is can be frustrating. It is important to remain neutral and explain to them that you have no information to give and if they continue, refer them back again and again to the person in charge |
Rated On: October 18, 2015 10:44 pm |
Rated By: Hedese |
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Comments: I think it would just be much easier to have her go see the teacher that she is inquiring about because that is the source of the concern. |
Rated On: October 19, 2015 12:47 am |
Rated By: ezyMyM |
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Comments: I agree that this solution would be the best. |
Rated On: February 27, 2016 10:17 pm |
Rated By: aTeRaz |
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Comments: I agree! |
Rated On: February 27, 2016 11:51 pm |
Rated By: yDaTes |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. Since the parent has been aggressive in her forms of questioning I don't see any harm in addressing her in a direct yet professional way. It's important to always maintain professionalism. Thanks for the solution. |
Rated On: March 1, 2016 8:16 pm |
Rated By: Melissa Dison |
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Comments: Good. Very direct with no wiggle room. |
Rated On: March 1, 2016 10:20 pm |
Rated By: daPaJa |
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Comments: Good solution to direct them to an administrator. That is not for you to discuss with them. |
Rated On: March 4, 2016 7:26 pm |
Rated By: ereTuB |
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Comments: I agree refferring the parent to administration for further questions is a good idea. |
Rated On: March 4, 2016 9:07 pm |
Rated By: paTaHe |
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Comments: this is a good solution |
Rated On: March 7, 2016 2:04 am |
Rated By: eqySam |
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Comments: Exactly, there is no reason this person should be coming to you for information. If they feel the need to ask questions send them to the administrators office. |
Rated On: March 7, 2016 4:16 am |
Rated By: BesuVy |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
Rated On: March 7, 2016 8:47 pm |
Rated By: eRyber |
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Comments: This is a wonderful solution. Often time adminstrators and school professionals will not deal with a situation unless there is clear evidance in front of them in the sisue. Ofteen times they want to see the problem right away s it needs to be worked with. |
Rated On: October 14, 2016 6:01 pm |
Rated By: emeBuz |
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Comments: This solution is reasonable. |
Rated On: October 15, 2016 12:24 am |
Rated By: zevuBa |
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Comments: By directing the parent to the administration, you are no longer responsible in this situation. I would also use this solution. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 1:26 am |
Rated By: ePymyp |
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Comments: I agree with this, the issues the parent is having is better for administration to deal with,especially since their child is not even your student. Good response. |
Rated On: October 17, 2016 12:34 am |
Rated By: aLuruz |
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Comments: I agree. This is what I would do in this situation. |
Rated On: October 18, 2016 8:41 pm |
Rated By: Daniela |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, this is exactly what I would do. |
Rated On: March 2, 2017 4:30 am |
Rated By: ybabaJ |
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Comments: I would definitely refer them to a higher up. |
Rated On: March 3, 2017 9:50 pm |
Rated By: jeReHy |
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Comments: I would do the same thing! If the parent is that aggressive about certain question that you are not comfortable answering then send them to someone who can possibly answer them. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 7:41 pm |
Rated By: avenyB |
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Comments: well said |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 9:31 pm |
Rated By: VeWyRu |
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Comments: Letting someone know is important. |
Rated On: July 19, 2017 5:52 pm |
Rated By: Savannah Lynn |
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Comments: This is an interesting subject! But I agree |
Rated On: October 10, 2017 4:12 pm |
Rated By: aNaMeJ |
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Comments: But it says that the administrator has not done anything yet, I think the solution needs to be reevaluated to be more effective. |
Rated On: October 15, 2017 12:38 pm |
Rated By: yPeMug |
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Comments: Absolutely, direct the parent to the administrator. |
Rated On: October 16, 2017 3:19 am |
Rated By: TyNeby |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
Rated On: February 28, 2018 12:59 am |
Rated By: agedyQ |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. |
Rated On: March 2, 2018 7:26 pm |
Rated By: equXuh |
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Comments: yes |
Rated On: October 9, 2018 1:03 am |
Rated By: pagyDa |
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Comments: This is straight on the best solution in my opinion. |
Rated On: February 19, 2019 11:49 pm |
Rated By: dyBese |
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Comments: I feel this would be the best way to deal with it if you feel uncomfortable. |
Rated On: July 3, 2019 7:31 pm |
Rated By: yQebyb |
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Comments: I agree |
Rated On: July 7, 2019 9:05 pm |
Rated By: SeGyHu |
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Comments: I think this is great idea. If possible maybe even walk them to the administrator so they can see personally what you were originally expressing to them and handle the issue. |
Rated On: October 16, 2019 9:06 pm |
Rated By: uPuhuP |
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Comments: i agree |
Rated On: October 21, 2019 12:15 am |
Rated By: ZySaje |
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Comments: This is what I would do in this situation because it points the parent in the direction of someone who would be able to answer their questions without putting anyone in an awkward situation. |
Rated On: October 19, 2020 1:18 am |
Rated By: Santana Loar |
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Comments: Agreed. Be straight forward and firm. |
Rated On: March 4, 2021 11:33 pm |
Rated By: yqeRas |
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Comments: Great idea. I would also do this! |
Rated On: March 6, 2021 6:17 pm |
Rated By: QaRepe |
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Comments: very helpful, i will do this if the situation ever occurs |
Rated On: March 8, 2021 2:46 am |
Rated By: turyhu |
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Comments: Your admin is there for a reason, use that resource. |
Rated On: April 3, 2023 1:28 am |
Rated By: TuVune |
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