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  Case: Dealing with angry parent
You are teaching one of your classes, when all of a sudden, an outraged mother comes through the door and knocks down everything in her way. The parent's child and you have had a difficult time lately, due to disciplinary problems in the classroom. You have tried to set up meetings with the parents, but they refuse to come in, they just claim that the child is not at fault. You have just given the student another detention that day, and they had to call home. The mother is sick of you giving her child detention. She is yelling everything in the book at you and threatening to hurt you. It seems there is no way to calm her down, and there is a possibility that any move might make her go into attack mode which would threaten the students. What do you do?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
The first thing I would do would be to call administration for assistance. I then would try to calm the parent down while keeping a reasonable distance. if in a pod setting, I might ask a neighboring teacher to come into the room with me and help me move the students out of the room and away from the volatile parent. This behavior is beyond unacceptable, and it is best to allow administration deal with it accordingly. First priority is the students' safety, then your own.
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
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Rated On: February 22, 2013 3:50 pm
Rated By: ypedeD
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
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Rated On: March 2, 2013 2:29 pm
Rated By: eHeGuL
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Calling administration is a smart next step and will likely solve the problem.
Rated On: October 13, 2014 8:38 pm
Rated By: sugeLu
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Removing the students from any type of threat is the most important factor in this scenario. Attempt to calm the parent by agreeing that "together" a solution must be found in regards to her child's behavior in the classroom. Depending on the facts and full details of the situation, perhaps a school personnel mediator should attend a conference between the administration, teachers, and parents.
Rated On: October 14, 2014 3:00 pm
Rated By: Denise Lukacik
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: This is a good solution on how to get others involve to make the situation calmer. It also leaves room for the parent to calm down and to help remove the student from the negative environment.
Rated On: October 19, 2014 10:47 pm
Rated By: dePyja
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments:
Rated On: October 10, 2017 12:13 am
Rated By: Nick
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Very true! The parent should not do that and administration should be there to help.
Rated On: October 20, 2019 10:16 pm
Rated By: ajeHus
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Agree - student safety is the priority. Evacuating the students from the situation should be the first and foremost goal.
Rated On: November 8, 2022 12:17 am
Rated By: etaWeW