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Case: Inappropriate Colleague Comments
Three years ago, when I first started teaching, I was the only African-American teacher in the entire school. I would speak in the morning, and in some intenses, had blank stares as I walked by. (Yes, racism in America is REAL!) I became cool with the grade level closest to my room. In one setting, one of the teachers repeated something he saw on the internet that referenced the "n word" in a song. I was cool with the reference the first time he said it, but the second and third times just took it too far. I did not say anything to administration, but would that have been the best solution?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
ANY time you are uncomfortable in a situation, you should let the person know in a professional manner. Not making excuses, but maybe the colleague was trying to be 'cool' (even though it was in an inappropriate way). The best solution is to let the person know his comment made you uncomfortable. If the person continued with the comments, I would seek an administrator. |
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| Rated On: November 2, 2015 7:31 pm |
| Rated By: uSezaV |
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| Comments: Good idea |
| Rated On: March 1, 2016 4:03 pm |
| Rated By: daPaJa |
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| Comments: I agree that you should speak up to the person when they are making you uncomfortable. However, if you are not comfortable with that it is also okay to speak with administration so that they can address the inappropriate behavior. |
| Rated On: October 10, 2016 12:10 am |
| Rated By: JabuDu |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
| Rated On: October 16, 2016 7:33 pm |
| Rated By: yTutar |
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| Comments: This is what I would do in this situation. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2016 8:02 pm |
| Rated By: Daniela |
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| Comments: I would let them know it made me uncomfortable and avoid escalating it until given a fair chance to correct it. |
| Rated On: October 22, 2016 3:51 am |
| Rated By: Kristen OBryant |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I agree that it would be wise to let the colleague know. It seems they are not being considerate of how their words effect others. I agree administration should be notified if the behavior persists. |
| Rated On: February 26, 2017 5:41 pm |
| Rated By: Melissa Dison |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: Good option to handle an uncomfortable and offensive situtation. |
| Rated On: March 6, 2017 12:58 am |
| Rated By: atugym |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: good solution |
| Rated On: October 8, 2017 4:25 am |
| Rated By: Gapasa |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. Being comfortable is an important part of any job. |
| Rated On: February 21, 2018 5:58 pm |
| Rated By: nehury |
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| Comments: I agree that you have the right to say something to him personally. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 2:20 am |
| Rated By: yqeQag |
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| Comments: I agree. In this type of situation it is best to act as a professional. |
| Rated On: February 26, 2018 4:22 am |
| Rated By: LyruPa |
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| Comments: I agree |
| Rated On: February 21, 2019 1:13 am |
| Rated By: Lawrence Poluchowicz |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I agree with the post. This was well written. |
| Rated On: February 22, 2019 8:23 pm |
| Rated By: Haley Kennedy |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution.It's always good to be honest and up front with how the situation made you feel. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 12:59 am |
| Rated By: Nicole Morris |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution |
| Rated On: February 25, 2019 3:03 am |
| Rated By: yVevyQ |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: This is the most appropriate and helpful solution. You should always speak to the colleague first, and if it does not stop, move on to admin. |
| Rated On: October 9, 2019 10:04 pm |
| Rated By: Samantha Rey |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: Communicating with the otehr person is the best solution to this case. |
| Rated On: October 21, 2019 1:04 am |
| Rated By: aSuByL |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: good idea |
| Rated On: November 4, 2019 1:35 am |
| Rated By: seJuQa |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I think talking to your coworker is the right thing to do. There is no need to go to administration unless he gets mad or continues to be disrespectful after your discussion. |
| Rated On: February 23, 2020 12:00 am |
| Rated By: emaXub |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. It is important to voice your discomfort, especially in a situation like this one. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2020 10:52 pm |
| Rated By: RyWaPy |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I would use this situation because I do believe it is beneficial to have professional conversations about problems you are having with those people who are causing them. |
| Rated On: June 30, 2021 8:41 pm |
| Rated By: yraReW |
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| Comments: This is a wonderful solution! |
| Rated On: November 1, 2021 12:18 am |
| Rated By: mymaVy |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I would address your colleague explaining how it makes you uncomfortable and is offensive then go to administration if it continues. |
| Rated On: April 1, 2022 3:22 am |
| Rated By: eSysyv |
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