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  Case: Smelly Kid
I guess I am still considered a novice teacher because I have been teaching for four years only. I am an elementary school teacher who teaches in a mostly White suburban setting. Couple of weeks ago a new student joined my classroom. He and his parents recently moved from Eastern Europe. His father works at the local university as a music professor. I am not sure what his mother does. He is a wonderful child. Although he speaks little English, he tries to participate in class activities and to make friends with others in the classroom. Couple days after he arrived, I noticed a strange smell around him. I was sure that it was body odor. The other students in the classroom started noticing it too. They started making fun of him. I learned in my multicultural classes when I was at the university that not all cultures promote taking showers everyday, and that body odor is not considered a problem everywhere in the world. Now I have a big dilemma. If I tell my student about it, I might embarrass him. If I sent a note to his parents, I may appear disrespectful toward their culture. But the way he is treated in the classroom by the other students is becoming a real problem. What should I do?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
If you aren't sure how to approach the parents, then I would speak with the counselor in your building. They are trained in how to deal with these types of situations and may be able to offer some assistance that you don't know about. If that doesn't work then call the parents and either let them know about what is going on or ask them to come in so you can speak to them face to face. It may not be apart of their culture and you wouldn't want to offend them saying it was. Once you talk to the parents I'm sure they will fix the problem because I'm sure they don't want their child made fun.