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  Case: Inappropriate Comments from a Parent
At the school I teach at there is a parent that is consistently walking their student all the way to the classroom and shares very unwarranted, unwanted and inappropriate comments with a few female teachers in the building. They are all choosing to just ignore him/hide from him when they see him walking down the hall. What would you recommend I do about the situation?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I would approach the parent and kindly tell him that some of their comments made to other teachers, especially female, are not appropriate for the school environment. If this does not work and the parent continues to make inappropriate comments then I would report him to administration. Since, it doesn't seem that this is a parent of one of your students then I would try not to get too involved. Another possible solution could be you talking as well as the teacher that teaches the parent's child.
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I would never do this! This is wrong!
Rated On: February 27, 2016 7:09 pm
Rated By: tuWyDe
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I do not agree that approaching the parent by yourself is a good idea.
Rated On: March 4, 2016 8:29 pm
Rated By: paTaHe
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: This solution is contradictory.
Rated On: March 6, 2016 9:47 pm
Rated By: Cynthia Juez
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I would NOT approach the parent. You have no idea who he is or what he might do, so its not worth getting into the problem by yourself. Get an administrator or SRO and let them know what is going on. Always make sure you are safe. You don't want to put you or your students in danger.
Rated On: March 7, 2016 3:11 am
Rated By: beSade
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I would never do this! This is wrong
Rated On: July 5, 2016 5:10 pm
Rated By: LuLyHa
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I would not try this solution because I think it needs to be handled by an administrator not a teacher. I would not try this solution.
Rated On: October 16, 2016 3:34 pm
Rated By: Brittany Doxsey
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I do not think the teacher should address the parent. The administration should address the parent.
Rated On: March 5, 2017 4:51 pm
Rated By: ysyver
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I would not use this solution
Rated On: March 5, 2017 8:41 pm
Rated By: Gytusa
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I think this could go EXTREMELY wrong especially if the teacher is a female. He may just come back with an even harsher comment. Administration and maybe even officials will need to be involved.
Rated On: October 15, 2017 10:38 pm
Rated By: QeZyqa
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: Don't approach a parent like this, others need to be contacted so this behavior stops.
Rated On: October 15, 2018 1:09 am
Rated By: aVugaG