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There's a kindergartener that crys every morning whenever the student's mother drops them off. After about 10 minutes the student stops crying and is fine, but this does get annoying when this happens every morning. Is this something where the student is just young and needs to grow up a little or is this something where I need to have a meeting with the parents about? When asked, all the student says is that they miss mommy. Obviously the mother can't sit by the student's side all the time. What should be done?
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This is not unusual behavior for a kindergarten aged student, in fact . . . it's quite common, especially in the first few weeks of school. Many students at that age have never been separated from their parent, nor have they been in a social setting such as school or day care. Granted, this is changing due to VPK, but there are still many children who have not had either experience coming into your classroom, and that is okay. Being patient and nurturing will go a very long way with young students. Try and help the student get what they need to start the day and then give them space. Being overly attentive can sometimes make this worse. I would also make a note for the parent in their student planner to let them know that this is happening. Usually, this crying fits will gradually decrease and stop altogether within the first few weeks of school. However, if they do not stop, don't seem to be decreasing, or are getting worse, you may wish to have a conference and/or refer to guidance.
 
     
     
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Rated On: February 18, 2013 8:18 pm
Rated By: ypedeD
 
     
     
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Rated On: February 21, 2013 1:11 am
Rated By: Jepupy
 
     
     
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Rated On: February 21, 2013 7:56 am
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Rated On: February 25, 2013 12:56 pm
Rated By: eruHeB
 
     
     
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Rated On: February 28, 2013 10:42 pm
Rated By: hujupu
 
     
     
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Rated On: March 1, 2013 11:12 pm
Rated By: GaTuWy
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
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Rated On: March 2, 2013 12:18 pm
Rated By: emaLeP
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
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Comments: Being patient and caring will be the easiest and most effective way to handle this situation, making this the most effective solution.
Rated On: October 13, 2014 7:25 pm
Rated By: sugeLu
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
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Comments: great post, very helpful.
Rated On: October 14, 2014 4:37 pm
Rated By: ehaZeb
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
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Rated On: October 19, 2014 12:45 am
Rated By: uZyvaP
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
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Comments: Great post.
Rated On: February 27, 2015 1:52 am
Rated By: Shannon Stephens
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
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Comments: Great post! I agree that parents should be informed if the crying continues past the first few weeks of school.
Rated On: September 30, 2015 3:33 pm
Rated By: Megan Lee
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
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Comments: A young child crying after separation from their parents is normal. The child should be encouraged to make friends and participate in school.
Rated On: February 25, 2018 1:11 am
Rated By: NaGava