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  Case: Your teacher is not a punching bag
While working one day, I had a student that was fine one second and then told me that he did not want to be there. The student is a 3rd grader and I did not feel comfortable letting the student just leave the classroom. I stood in front of the classroom door and did not allow the student to leave the classroom. Once I did this, he started punching me, pushing me, elbowing me, and trying to get me away from the doorway. This obciously didnt work. While the student was doing this I called for administration and they came and took the student out of the classroom. I later found out that there was nothing done to the student for hitting me and such. Is there anything that can be done? I want to make sure this student understands that he can't do this and that it is not appropriate behavior. If administration didn't write him up, can I still?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
Firstly--does the student have any pre-existing conditions, disabilities, or known behaviors that would explain the way that he acted out. This is not typical behavior for a third grade student, and knowing a student's background information really changed the way this situation looks.

As far as hitting you, actions should have been taken. I believe any physical violence against another person should result in automatic referral and OSS. The fact that this did not happen leads one to believe that there may be a missing piece of information that can help explain the situation.

I understand your feelings though, and suggest you take your issue to administration and explain again what happened and your feelings. They will likely be able to explain why action was/or was not taken on this situation. If no satisfactory answer can be given, you may wish to go further with your complaint.

As for the situation itself, it may be good to reflect on the situation to think of some steps that could have been taken between the "I don't want to be here" statement, and you blocking the door. Something may have happened with another student to trigger this behavior, and asking what happened may have acted as a better diffuser than blocking the door.
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
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Rated On: February 18, 2013 4:40 pm
Rated By: Latasha Chong
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: This solution is helpful, but does make it sound a little disrespectful towards the teacher. I did not feel like that was appropriate.
Rated On: February 18, 2013 10:15 pm
Rated By: maWyZu
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
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Rated On: February 21, 2013 12:53 am
Rated By: Jepupy
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
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Rated On: February 22, 2013 1:04 pm
Rated By: GaTuWy
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
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Rated On: February 25, 2013 12:54 pm
Rated By: eruHeB
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
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Rated On: February 28, 2013 10:41 pm
Rated By: hujupu
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Something should have been done when the student got physical.
Rated On: March 2, 2013 12:09 pm
Rated By: emaLeP
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: If I were in this situation I would do just this.
Rated On: October 16, 2014 2:03 am
Rated By: Jocelyn Mitchell
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: This solution points out the most important aspect of any situation; we must be informed and have all the facts pertaining to decisions that affect ourselves, our classrooms, and our students. If we do not, then misunderstandings, miscommunication, and negative situations occur.
Rated On: October 18, 2014 1:05 am
Rated By: Denise Lukacik
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Great tips, but as far as blocking the door, I agree with that. This student is in 3rd grade and does not need to leave the classroom to wonder around wherever he feels like going. The teacher is responsible for that child. She did the right thing.
Rated On: October 19, 2014 11:58 pm
Rated By: Sanubu
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I think this solution would help the most in this situation.
Rated On: October 20, 2014 1:05 am
Rated By: duGyJy
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I think this was a really good solution to the problem.
Rated On: February 25, 2015 10:06 pm
Rated By: Shannon Stephens
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: This will help
Rated On: March 4, 2016 7:09 pm
Rated By: pytaLy
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I agree that consequences are needed for the behavior and they should be addressed. Reflecting on the conflict is also important for future experiences. I would do the same after the incident.
Rated On: March 6, 2017 4:29 am
Rated By: Jessica J.
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: It is not okay for a student to hit anyone. Immediate action should have been taken by administration.
Rated On: February 25, 2018 1:08 am
Rated By: NaGava