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Case: Teacher Cleavage
There is a teacher at my school that is constantly wearing low cut shirts. She is a fourth grade teacher which is the age when students are starting to notice things like this. The administration has not said anything to her and this has been going on for several years now. The other teachers talk about it, but will not saying anything about it. My son will most likely be in her class next year and I would like to bring it to her attention but I do not know if I should. What would be the appropriate way to bring this up?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
This is a situation where you should have an administrator handle it. To many things could be misunderstood which could turn this into a serious problem. |
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| Comments: I agree I would not speak to her directly , you work with her and your son will likely be in her class. She would take offense to it. Let the administration handle it |
| Rated On: July 6, 2016 9:12 pm |
| Rated By: eHebah |
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| Comments: I liked this solution, because it offers how it is sensitive situations such as these that one can be misunderstood and feel attack. When in reality a teacher is just concerned about dress code and effect on students. So, this clearly is a issue that is no appropriate for a colleague to address, but the administration. |
| Rated On: July 7, 2016 3:04 am |
| Rated By: aWyVys |
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| Comments: If a co-worker is dressed in an inappropriate manner it is up to the administrators to address the issue. |
| Rated On: October 10, 2016 12:12 am |
| Rated By: JabuDu |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution, that since this is a sensitive area that administration should handle it. |
| Rated On: October 12, 2016 6:17 pm |
| Rated By: uSaPeL |
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| Comments: I agree. I wouldn't want to be caught in the middle, if I felt uncomfortable about bringing it up. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2016 1:56 am |
| Rated By: etyWys |
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| Comments: This is true. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2016 12:29 am |
| Rated By: maPyqa |
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| Comments: agreed |
| Rated On: October 17, 2016 2:04 am |
| Rated By: veXyge |
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| Comments: The solution is respectful to the other teacher involved as no other people are getting involved which could further embarrass or upset the individual additionally having administration involved will assist the teacher to understand the concerns of others in a way that will not come off wrongly if you were to attempt to handle the situation. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2017 1:22 am |
| Rated By: aHeXud |
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| Comments: I agree, talking to the administration about the situation is a good first step. |
| Rated On: March 1, 2017 12:17 am |
| Rated By: emaHeR |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this. |
| Rated On: March 2, 2017 3:45 pm |
| Rated By: GyNyzu |
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| Comments: I agree. |
| Rated On: March 5, 2017 5:12 am |
| Rated By: e7m1w5 |
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| Comments: yep |
| Rated On: March 5, 2017 9:51 pm |
| Rated By: puSage |
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| Comments: I agree, going anonymously to administration is the better way to go if you don't feel comfortable about confronting her about it. |
| Rated On: March 6, 2017 3:08 am |
| Rated By: avenyB |
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| Comments: I agree. I definitely wouldn't say anything to her directly. I would however express my concerns with ADMIN. |
| Rated On: October 9, 2017 6:19 pm |
| Rated By: aduNaQ |
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| Comments: Great solution! |
| Rated On: October 14, 2017 1:08 am |
| Rated By: aBezuz |
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| Comments: If admin is unwilling to address the issue, maybe requesting a different teacher if that is an option. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2017 10:53 pm |
| Rated By: hepasy |
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| Comments: Absolutely, use the chain of commands. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2017 2:42 am |
| Rated By: TyNeby |
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| Comments: helpful |
| Rated On: October 16, 2017 3:19 am |
| Rated By: aTuraJ |
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| Comments: I would do the same thing in this situation. |
| Rated On: October 20, 2017 8:10 pm |
| Rated By: RaZyma |
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| Comments: I absolutely agree with this. |
| Rated On: February 20, 2018 12:13 am |
| Rated By: uDyJeZ |
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| Comments: I agree, this is a dress code issue that is left to supervisors to tackle. |
| Rated On: February 23, 2018 3:08 pm |
| Rated By: aJysah |
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| Comments: I agree! This is not a situation one should handle themselves. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 3:14 pm |
| Rated By: XuNaWa |
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| Comments: Absolutely agreed. Bringing things like this up to her face she could easily spin it around and say that you are harassing her in some way so I think going to administration first is a great idea. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 8:34 pm |
| Rated By: amubuS |
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| Comments: I don't think this is the best way to handle this situation. |
| Rated On: February 26, 2018 3:01 am |
| Rated By: LyruPa |
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| Comments: I wouldn't go to admin first |
| Rated On: July 7, 2018 12:24 pm |
| Rated By: yqunaz |
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| Comments: This is a simple solution to a simple problem. |
| Rated On: October 11, 2018 7:08 pm |
| Rated By: yhezuS |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
| Rated On: February 19, 2019 7:46 pm |
| Rated By: GeQapy |
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| Comments: There is never anything wrong with going to administration. After all that is their job. |
| Rated On: February 22, 2019 8:21 pm |
| Rated By: Haley Kennedy |
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| Comments: While I do not agree with pushing problems to others that one self could solve, but in this day and age problems like these could blow way out of proportion. Asking for help to tackle this would be useful. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 3:39 am |
| Rated By: ysyBuW |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I agree that with going through the administration. Talking to her one on one can make working with her and having her as your child's teacher hard. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 8:31 pm |
| Rated By: upehaS |
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| Comments: I like this solution. Talking to her directly might cause a problem, but going to administration is likely to solve this situation. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2019 5:50 am |
| Rated By: Joseph Scharfschwerdt |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. |
| Rated On: February 21, 2020 7:44 pm |
| Rated By: vaMuvy |
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| Comments: Great solution. |
| Rated On: October 5, 2020 3:03 pm |
| Rated By: yQebyb |
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| Comments: I agree, go to administration |
| Rated On: July 1, 2021 6:28 pm |
| Rated By: yTuWeG |
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| Comments: I think this is a good way to go about handling the situation |
| Rated On: November 10, 2022 7:50 am |
| Rated By: muWyZy |
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| Comments: I agree, this situation could get taken out of context so bringing outside help in is the best solution. |
| Rated On: October 7, 2023 11:53 pm |
| Rated By: bequja |
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