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  Case: Too Touchy
I have a student who is very sweet but insists on being too touchy to everyone around him. It is most of the time just hugging and such but it is sometimes hitting or kicking (in a playful way). He is a very affectionate boy and he means well, but I know it makes some other students uncomfortable and I don't know the best way to handle it because I don't want his feelings to be hurt but he needs to respect others space.
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
As a substitute teacher I've come across this problem when the student always wants to hug me. At first she caught me off guard and I quickly moved to the "side hug." I then asked her to stop and try a "finger tap," where she would put up her pointer finger and I would tap hers with my pointer finger, and we would "pretend that was a hug." It seemed to work since it was the sense of showing affection that mattered to her, and that "finger tap" symbolized the same affection.
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I've used this as well - very nerve wracking when a student wants a hug.
Rated On: October 10, 2016 10:55 pm
Rated By: uBuDap
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I agree!
Rated On: February 24, 2017 3:01 am
Rated By: eZuGeQ
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: What a great way to avoid showing the student rejection, while setting limits.
Rated On: March 3, 2017 4:37 pm
Rated By: dyMaDe
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: agree
Rated On: October 15, 2017 6:58 pm
Rated By: yheGeS