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Case: Out of Code
I have a female student who comes to class out of dress code. My school does not enforce the code. She is either wearing half shirts with spaghetti straps, or shorts with her rear showing. I have discussed with her that some other students look up to her and that she should show them proper attire for a young lady. This does not work at all. How do I help her change her ways?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
Sounds like you need to have a conversation with the administration, as well as the student. Additionally, it is important for the student to understand the difference in dressing to come to work (school) and dressing to go out with friends on the weekend. More often than not, kids at that age are not concerned about what younger kids think / idolize, but if you can point out the negative consequences it can have on her own life, you may be able to make a difference. |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would do exactly this. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2016 3:19 pm |
| Rated By: ePymyp |
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| Comments: This solution is spot on. When you have a student who does not care another additive may be to get the parents involved if this strategy isnt affective enough. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2016 4:27 pm |
| Rated By: uWuXyj |
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| Comments: This is a great solution and the one I would use this as well. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2016 1:25 am |
| Rated By: RehaGa |
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| Comments: I would do something similar in this situation. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2016 1:35 pm |
| Rated By: GezyHu |
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| Comments: I don't think scaring the child into proper dress code is appropriate. Rules are rules and if the student continually doesn't follow them, she should be sent to an administrator. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2016 9:12 pm |
| Rated By: yJatyt |
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| Comments: I agree, maybe she is not aware that there is a time an place for casual clothing and respectable clothing. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2016 9:17 pm |
| Rated By: ajuVyj |
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| Comments: The administration needs to realize it is inappropriate! |
| Rated On: October 16, 2016 11:41 pm |
| Rated By: veXyge |
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| Comments: I think that the parents should be contacted before administrators. |
| Rated On: October 17, 2016 2:22 am |
| Rated By: raMaba |
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| Comments: I ould do the same but first I would have administration do something about it possibly. Administration should be the ones enforcing dress code and punishing those students who do not follow the rules. |
| Rated On: October 17, 2016 5:37 pm |
| Rated By: Daniela |
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| Comments: I would do the same thing. |
| Rated On: February 20, 2017 4:34 pm |
| Rated By: uJuPyS |
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| Comments: Students should certainly see school as work and not a social hour. |
| Rated On: February 23, 2017 3:30 pm |
| Rated By: Cortnie |
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| Comments: I agree i would do the same thing in this situation. |
| Rated On: March 3, 2017 6:45 pm |
| Rated By: ymuBub |
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| Comments: I would definitely take this to administration for further support. |
| Rated On: March 5, 2017 2:48 pm |
| Rated By: jeReHy |
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| Comments: This would be my solution as well. |
| Rated On: March 5, 2017 3:43 pm |
| Rated By: aWeVyM |
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| Comments: I agree. This is an administrative problem and should be left to them. Great advice!! |
| Rated On: March 5, 2017 7:11 pm |
| Rated By: Chelsea Navarro |
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| Comments: well said |
| Rated On: March 5, 2017 9:19 pm |
| Rated By: VeWyRu |
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| Comments: I think this is a good solution and I would use it at my school. |
| Rated On: March 6, 2017 1:06 am |
| Rated By: aGeteb |
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| Comments: This is exactly what I would do in this situation. |
| Rated On: March 6, 2017 2:35 am |
| Rated By: QaHyWe |
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| Comments: I think that this is a great solution and brings up really good points |
| Rated On: March 6, 2017 2:44 am |
| Rated By: Gapasa |
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| Comments: I would do the same in this situation. I agree that students doing this do not care about influencing younger kids and would respond better to consequence. |
| Rated On: March 6, 2017 2:57 am |
| Rated By: Jessica J. |
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| Comments: I would get administration involved. |
| Rated On: March 6, 2017 4:14 am |
| Rated By: Hasena Kurtić |
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| Comments: I agree that you should make it a positive conversation with the student. |
| Rated On: July 3, 2017 4:59 pm |
| Rated By: yGedeb |
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| Comments: Definitely agree with this |
| Rated On: July 9, 2017 2:39 am |
| Rated By: MeRepe |
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| Comments: This solution is useful to this case. The administration needs to be aware of the situation and the student as well. |
| Rated On: October 4, 2017 4:20 pm |
| Rated By: SyHaBe |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. I would add that if this doesn't work then involve administration and parents. |
| Rated On: October 4, 2017 5:00 pm |
| Rated By: ysyver |
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| Comments: Good solution! |
| Rated On: October 8, 2017 6:24 pm |
| Rated By: azuTen |
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| Comments: I agree, it is time to talk to administration and maybe her parents. She needs to know that some outfits are not appropriate for school. |
| Rated On: October 8, 2017 6:53 pm |
| Rated By: vaHyna |
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| Comments: good solution |
| Rated On: October 9, 2017 1:13 am |
| Rated By: uhuQyM |
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| Comments: I think this solution is useful because it makes the appropriate steps to stop the behavior since the dress code is not enforced. I think using real world examples is important to bring to her attention what dressing like that could tell other people. |
| Rated On: October 9, 2017 7:25 pm |
| Rated By: Rachel Stephens |
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| Comments: Speaking with the student and explaining them the difference between dressing for school and dressing for going out is a great thing to do. Also explaining to the student why it is important for them to dress appropriately to set a good example for the younger children is a great thing to do. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2017 7:49 pm |
| Rated By: PaZume |
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| Comments: i agree with talking to administration about the situation and discussing with the student proper dress attire for school. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2017 10:54 pm |
| Rated By: yLeQud |
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| Comments: I do not think that you need to talk to the administration. If you speak to the student, that should be enough because they will probably understand that this could be a big problem and do not want to deal with it. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2017 11:07 pm |
| Rated By: Xupuva |
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| Comments: I would do this too. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2017 3:34 am |
| Rated By: SeQeLy |
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| Comments: I agree let her know that weekend clothes are not school clothes and when she comes into class dressed inappropriately send her to the office and send home notes for the parents. |
| Rated On: February 20, 2018 1:08 am |
| Rated By: Faith Graham |
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| Comments: I agree. I would speak to administration about the issue. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 8:53 pm |
| Rated By: JytuTe |
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| Comments: This is a great answer, thank you for the advice. I will keep it in mind to use in future classroom |
| Rated On: July 4, 2018 3:42 pm |
| Rated By: eReXaG |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution |
| Rated On: October 1, 2018 6:08 pm |
| Rated By: quJuja |
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| Comments: Yes great idea. Sometimes girls do not understand that the way the dress in school and out of school are entirely different and if this is something continually an issue talking with parents and administration is necessary. |
| Rated On: October 12, 2018 8:29 pm |
| Rated By: ubeBaz |
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| Comments: Amazing post. School dress code and weekend dress code are different I agree. |
| Rated On: February 22, 2019 10:03 pm |
| Rated By: Haley Kennedy |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would do exactly this. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 10:14 pm |
| Rated By: yzysuZ |
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| Comments: It’s a good idea to speak with administration about the issue because although having the students have freedom to dress as they like taking advantage of it, especially for students that can be seen as room models to others, is unacceptable. Although students like to experiment with their identity in their clothing they must understand that there is a time and place. |
| Rated On: October 20, 2019 5:11 am |
| Rated By: maVeqy |
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| Comments: Good idea. Talk to the student and the administration. Make sure that she also knows that this could technically be seen as inappropriate. |
| Rated On: October 20, 2019 8:52 pm |
| Rated By: Mary Claire Murphy |
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| Comments: I agree the best way to handle this situation is to address the issue to administration and also have a discussion with the girl to let her understand that is not the proper way to dress in school. |
| Rated On: October 21, 2019 2:56 am |
| Rated By: aHaQaj |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is original |
Yes
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| Comments: good |
| Rated On: February 23, 2020 11:13 pm |
| Rated By: ejyqeq |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is original |
Yes
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| Comments: yes |
| Rated On: October 9, 2020 4:06 pm |
| Rated By: Antonius Hadley |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is original |
Yes
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| Comments: i agree |
| Rated On: April 17, 2022 1:44 am |
| Rated By: aNabaR |
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