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Case: Overbearing parent
What do you do when a parent volunteers to help with a lot, which you happily accept, but then they become a little overbearing? I worked with a parent that was willing to help with anything the teachers needed, but once they felt comfortable around the teachers she started overstepping her boundaries. She would give her daughter permission to do things in the classroom that were against the rules but I felt uncomfortable confronting the mom about it. She was so helpful in so many areas that I let the little things slide, but the situation started increasing (snowball effect).
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I encountered a situation similar to this. It is important to set boundaries, even with parents. It is wonderful that they want to help but make sure they know what you need help with and what you don't need help with. |
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| Comments: I don't like your solution because you don't really give a lot of information on how to handle this, you just say I've been through this and set boundaries, thats not that helpful. |
| Rated On: October 13, 2016 1:32 pm |
| Rated By: TaTaBy |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is original |
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| Comments: I agree with this statement. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2016 7:16 pm |
| Rated By: Husava |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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| Comments: Remind them you appreciate them. But this is school. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2016 12:43 am |
| Rated By: maPyqa |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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| Comments: I think this is a great solution because it lets the parent know their appreciated, but certain tasks (redirecting students, granting permission, etc.) is the teacher's job and not the parent's. |
| Rated On: March 3, 2017 8:52 pm |
| Rated By: Jessica J. |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this. I believe it is important to make sure the parent is only helping in the area the teacher wants by giving clear instruction, possible in a separate area of the student which limits interaction between parent and child. |
| Rated On: March 5, 2017 1:31 am |
| Rated By: zazyny |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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| Comments: Great solution! Setting boundaries before she volunteers makes your expectations clear. |
| Rated On: July 9, 2017 2:27 am |
| Rated By: jeRumu |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
No
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No
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No
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| Comments: Boundaries are necessary, but more needs to be addressed then just this. The help of a parent is great, but they are only help and their child can't get special privileges. |
| Rated On: October 12, 2017 5:03 pm |
| Rated By: yneLuM |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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Yes
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| Comments: Parents shouldn't ever hold the help they give over a teacehr's head |
| Rated On: October 22, 2017 2:31 am |
| Rated By: uregeT |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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Yes
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| Comments: I feel that setting boundaries is very important and the best way to resolve this problem. |
| Rated On: February 19, 2018 7:56 pm |
| Rated By: dymaDa |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is original |
Yes
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| Comments: I feel this to be a very effective and useful solution. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 10:38 pm |
| Rated By: aWyreQ |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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Yes
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| Comments: Yes make sure they know what they can help with and what comments they may not make to students. |
| Rated On: July 7, 2019 12:44 am |
| Rated By: yHumuG |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. Parents need to have expectations and boundaries set beforehand. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2019 7:49 pm |
| Rated By: uPuhuP |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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| Comments: This is a great solution with good ideas. |
| Rated On: February 26, 2020 12:30 am |
| Rated By: eraquR |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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| Comments: Boundaries and respect are essential from all parties. I agree with you that it is nice that they want to help, but crossing boundaries is simply unacceptable. |
| Rated On: October 31, 2021 9:21 pm |
| Rated By: dedyqa |
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