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Case: Which parent wins?
I have a student who's parents fight over who gets to pick up the child. The child never knows who to go with because they make him feel bad. Who do I let the child go with? And how can I make this stop?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I would have a talk with both letting them now that there fighting effect there child and makes him uncomfortable because all the other student see whats going on. They need to work as a team and not fight in front of child and in front of the students. |
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Comments: As the teacher, you are not responsible for custody issues. Unless, there is documentation stating where the child should go. However, this solution is useful. |
Rated On: October 15, 2016 6:50 pm |
Rated By: ePymyp |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 12:03 am |
Rated By: junuTu |
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Comments: Always good to remind the parents to think of how their actions impact their child. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 3:24 am |
Rated By: ematen |
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Comments: This is so true. The parents need to be aware of what they're doing to their child. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 3:59 am |
Rated By: zeveLu |
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Comments: I agree the parents should work together to find out whats in the best interest of the child and work out a schedule so the child knows who he/she is going home with on what day. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 4:32 am |
Rated By: ZeSuQy |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: I think the parents are maybe unaware of how much pressure they are putting on their child, so calling them both in separately to talk about how we can fix this together would be best. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 5:55 pm |
Rated By: ajuVyj |
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Comments: This is very important because it is causing the child unnecessary stress and the parents need to see this. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 6:07 pm |
Rated By: nehury |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: I do not agree with this solution. I think it is more appropriate to involve administrators at this point. I would not try this solution. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 8:20 pm |
Rated By: Brittany Doxsey |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: This needs to go the school as well. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 11:03 pm |
Rated By: maPyqa |
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Comments: I agree. The parents need to be made aware of the damage they are doing to the child. |
Rated On: February 25, 2017 7:54 pm |
Rated By: etyWys |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: Although I would want to do the same thing, I find this solution to be a little more towards the bad side because it could lead to bigger problems. The parents may feel that you are stepping over the personal boundaries. |
Rated On: March 1, 2017 5:16 pm |
Rated By: juduje |
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Comments: The parents are honestly being disrespectful to their own child and they need to work out their problems instead of shoving them in their child's face.
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Rated On: March 3, 2017 9:23 pm |
Rated By: jeReHy |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would likely do something very similar. |
Rated On: March 4, 2017 4:28 pm |
Rated By: uHubaT |
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Comments: A conference would be helpful. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 6:05 am |
Rated By: Kelsey Lutzi |
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Comments: well said |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 9:07 pm |
Rated By: VeWyRu |
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Comments: The way you worded this may make the parents feel as though you are attacking them and since they are the parents, they feel as though they know what is best for their child |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 9:14 pm |
Rated By: ReRege |
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Comments: This is a great solution. This may not work depending on the parents, however it is worth a shot. A conference with both parents present seems like it may solve the problem. |
Rated On: March 6, 2017 1:05 am |
Rated By: QaHyWe |
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Comments: I'm not sure that approaching the parents like this is appropriate, especially because you only know what is happening in the child's eyes. You probably want to get a guidance counselor involved so the child can talk about the way it is affecting them in a different environment |
Rated On: February 21, 2018 9:03 pm |
Rated By: uguduB |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 3:45 pm |
Rated By: Vunypu |
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Comments: I feel this to be a very effective and useful solution. |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 10:37 pm |
Rated By: aWyreQ |
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Comments: Simple but helpful |
Rated On: October 15, 2018 12:34 am |
Rated By: aLureP |
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Comments: This solution is helpful |
Rated On: February 19, 2019 2:18 pm |
Rated By: Hyhame |
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Comments: I agree with you! |
Rated On: February 19, 2019 7:33 pm |
Rated By: GeQapy |
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Comments: This would put the teacher in a stance that they do not have any authority in. Instead A social worker or counselor would be best suited to talk with the parents. |
Rated On: February 24, 2019 4:47 am |
Rated By: ysyBuW |
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Comments: Talking to both parents is a great first step, but if they are still not able to work it out amongst themselves police might have to get involved. That type of behavior should not be shown at school around their child or any other child. |
Rated On: February 24, 2019 1:49 pm |
Rated By: Keith Evans |
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Comments: I agree with this solution completely. |
Rated On: February 24, 2019 7:00 pm |
Rated By: yVevyQ |
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Comments: Yes, I agree with this solution |
Rated On: July 7, 2019 8:41 pm |
Rated By: Brenda Perez Prieto |
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Comments: I agree |
Rated On: July 7, 2019 9:05 pm |
Rated By: SeGyHu |
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Comments: This is a great way to handle the situation |
Rated On: November 10, 2022 6:57 am |
Rated By: muWyZy |
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