|
|
|
|
Case: Cliques
I have two students who are acting out towards the other students. They are both girls who pick on the girls with less friends. How do I stop this without crossing my boundaries as their teacher and not their parents?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
As a teacher it is your right to stand up for what is right and to let students know that bullying is not acceptable. I would talk to all the students who are involved in this case and let them express how they feel and have them apologize. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Letting children express how they feel is a great idea |
Rated On: October 15, 2016 3:04 pm |
Rated By: aDaWaV |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I think this solutions is going to be helpful, because peer mediation is a good way to find a mutual understanding of how they feel, and can create better relationships between students, and as a teacher, not overstepping any boundaries because it is between students. |
Rated On: October 15, 2016 3:25 pm |
Rated By: uWuXyj |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I completely agree. Intervening to prevent bullying is really important. |
Rated On: October 15, 2016 7:03 pm |
Rated By: raMaba |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Great Solution |
Rated On: October 15, 2016 11:09 pm |
Rated By: GezyHu |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Mediation! |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 12:38 am |
Rated By: maPyqa |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree with this solution but I would maybe address the class as a whole and let them all know that bullying is not acceptable and maybe give the bullying students an opportunity to fix the problem themselves. If they don't take advantage of the opportunity then it's probably time for some pier mediation. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 1:25 am |
Rated By: zeveLu |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
No
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
No
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
No
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
No
|
The suggested solution is original |
No
|
Comments: I do not feel this solution will solve the problem/issue. If i were in this situation i would first address the class as a whole, explain that bullying will not be tolerated and give them the opportunity to privately write a letter to "someone they feel they have been a bully to" these letters will be turned into the teacher and gives the student the opportunity to come forward and address the situation privately. I would also involve an administrator or guidance counselor to make them aware of the situation. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 1:26 am |
Rated By: ZeSuQy |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree, and if that does not work I would contact the parents. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 7:38 pm |
Rated By: ajuVyj |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: This is a great as it allows all students involved to mediate and work out issues with one another. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 7:59 pm |
Rated By: emeBuz |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
No
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
No
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
No
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
No
|
The suggested solution is original |
No
|
Comments: too casual of a response |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 11:10 pm |
Rated By: veXyge |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree 100% |
Rated On: October 17, 2016 12:26 am |
Rated By: uvuVas |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I definitely agree with you and as a future teacher believe this definitely will follow me into my profession. Standing up for your students and ensuring their safety is most important to a successful classroom. |
Rated On: October 17, 2016 12:30 am |
Rated By: Sieara Voegtle |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Nicely said! |
Rated On: October 17, 2016 12:43 am |
Rated By: Gabriel Nash |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: It is not only your right and your duty as a teacher, but even just as a person. We have to stand up for those who are being bullied if it is ever going to end. |
Rated On: October 24, 2016 3:56 am |
Rated By: Aja Galioto |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: A good idea to have an open discussion, this is a good first step. |
Rated On: February 20, 2017 11:05 pm |
Rated By: Mynuqy |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree and think that this is a great solution. This is probably how I would resolve the situation. |
Rated On: February 24, 2017 2:25 am |
Rated By: RehaGa |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: This is a good start to begin to solve the issue however there is no real plan. Just talking or planning on talking about the problem will not guarantee a solution will be met. |
Rated On: February 26, 2017 3:28 am |
Rated By: etyWys |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Great advise! As the teacher, they need to be an advocate for all the students. |
Rated On: March 1, 2017 1:33 am |
Rated By: emaHeR |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I wholeheartedly agree with this. Teachers have a responsibility to protect students from bullying. Talking to the girls individually or in private is a good start. |
Rated On: March 2, 2017 12:45 am |
Rated By: jyHyHy |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: “If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this” |
Rated On: March 2, 2017 3:54 am |
Rated By: eVeQat |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I think that talking to the girls individually is smart. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 5:49 am |
Rated By: Kelsey Lutzi |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree with this solution, it is very useful |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 8:24 pm |
Rated By: Gytusa |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Well said |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 9:13 pm |
Rated By: VeWyRu |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree that the girls should apologize. |
Rated On: March 6, 2017 4:00 am |
Rated By: Hasena Kurtić |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I would do the exact same thing. |
Rated On: July 7, 2017 3:44 am |
Rated By: eRahyR |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree, you have the right to intervene when bullying is involved. |
Rated On: October 6, 2017 5:49 pm |
Rated By: vaHyna |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Exactly. Explain to them that that kind of behavior is not tolerated in your classroom. |
Rated On: October 9, 2017 11:32 pm |
Rated By: aduNaQ |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: i agree with talking to the students and letting the know bullying is not acceptable. |
Rated On: October 14, 2017 10:30 pm |
Rated By: yLeQud |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree, stand up for what's right. If that still doesn't work, send them to the office on a referral. |
Rated On: October 16, 2017 3:38 am |
Rated By: TyNeby |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree it is the teachers responsibility to stop bullying when it starts see something say something. Make the girls aware that it is unacceptable to treat other students poorly and if it continues there will be repercussions. |
Rated On: February 20, 2018 12:23 am |
Rated By: Faith Graham |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: this is a good solution |
Rated On: February 23, 2018 9:03 pm |
Rated By: eBejaP |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I liked your choice of bring the students aside to talk to them. |
Rated On: February 24, 2018 6:33 pm |
Rated By: upyWyH |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Great solution! |
Rated On: February 26, 2018 1:11 am |
Rated By: detyny |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I think this is an excellent solution. Pulling the girls aside and talking to them can help tremendously. I think it's important for there to be a zero-tolerance policy when it comes to bullying. |
Rated On: July 6, 2018 12:27 pm |
Rated By: Rochelle Young |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Yes. |
Rated On: October 9, 2018 2:00 am |
Rated By: pagyDa |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Talk to the girls. |
Rated On: February 22, 2019 7:17 pm |
Rated By: uzaZuz |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree, it is important to immediately and consistently address bullying to explain that it is not tolerated at all. |
Rated On: February 24, 2019 2:56 am |
Rated By: dygavu |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: I agree with this approach. If it gets serve, you can send the girls to the principals office, etc. |
Rated On: February 24, 2019 9:57 pm |
Rated By: upehaS |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Calmly talking to the students is for sure the best first thing to try before getting parents involved. |
Rated On: October 18, 2020 11:08 pm |
Rated By: ezesaL |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
|
The suggested solution is original |
Yes
|
Comments: Bullying is not acceptable you should talk to all the students. |
Rated On: October 19, 2020 3:24 am |
Rated By: eMuQah |
|
|
|
|
|
|