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Case: Which parent wins?
I have a student who's parents fight over who gets to pick up the child. The child never knows who to go with because they make him feel bad. Who do I let the child go with? And how can I make this stop?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
You can talk to both the parents and the student and set days for the parents to pick up the student. Let the parents know that their fighting is affecting the student. You can also have one drop off and one picks up and then they would flip-flop the following day. If this doesn't help the situation, than you can sit down with the student and set out which days he would go with which parent, so the student wouldn't feel bad about having to choose each day. |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: This solution provides a schedule fro the student and can solve the problem. |
Rated On: March 2, 2017 11:16 pm |
Rated By: tuBaZu |
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: Yes, I agree with this idea! Talk to the parents have them set assigned days to pick up their child. |
Rated On: March 4, 2017 4:14 pm |
Rated By: avenyB |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this. I think setting a routine that is fair to everyone is the best option. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 1:21 am |
Rated By: zazyny |
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: Great idea to let the student make a plan and decide. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 3:46 am |
Rated By: e7m1w5 |
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: This is a great solution. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 6:05 am |
Rated By: Kelsey Lutzi |
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The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: Taking turns is a good idea |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 9:13 pm |
Rated By: ReRege |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: covers all points. good idea. |
Rated On: July 9, 2017 5:41 pm |
Rated By: uTaGuv |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: Presenting different solutions are a great way to start a meaningful conversation with the students. At the end, we won't have control of who the student goes with, but helping with the sorting process would be the best way to help. |
Rated On: October 11, 2017 12:39 am |
Rated By: yGeHyz |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: I agree with your solution |
Rated On: February 24, 2018 8:30 pm |
Rated By: aqaMuT |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: This is exactly what I would do. I would sit down with the student and help them come up with a schedule as to which parent they will go with and on what days. |
Rated On: February 24, 2018 8:47 pm |
Rated By: juduje |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: I feel this to be a very effective and useful solution. |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 10:37 pm |
Rated By: aWyreQ |
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Comments: Good idea. |
Rated On: February 26, 2018 2:36 am |
Rated By: QaHyWe |
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Rated On: October 9, 2018 12:29 am |
Rated By: pagyDa |
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Comments: Agreed |
Rated On: October 15, 2018 12:35 am |
Rated By: aLureP |
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Comments: This solution is helpful |
Rated On: February 19, 2019 2:23 pm |
Rated By: Hyhame |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
Rated On: February 19, 2019 7:33 pm |
Rated By: GeQapy |
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Comments: I agree I would have them flip flop days. |
Rated On: February 24, 2019 1:53 am |
Rated By: Myria Coure |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: Having the child pick which parent they prefer to go with would be less than useful as they both already have made the student feel bad. Instead talk with the administrators for a plan of action for the parents to follow through. |
Rated On: February 24, 2019 4:49 am |
Rated By: ysyBuW |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: I think this is a good solution in some ways. It is smart to set up a set calendar or plan so the parents can share days. Remind the parents this solution is FOR the child's emotional and mental wellbeing |
Rated On: October 16, 2019 8:50 pm |
Rated By: uPuhuP |
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
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The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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The suggested solution is original |
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Comments: great idea
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Rated On: October 31, 2021 5:06 pm |
Rated By: quHyra |
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