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  Case: What goes on at home?
I had a student roll up their little half paper homework sheet, and pretend to smoke out of it like they were smoking marijuana. They were telling all of the students who didn't know what that was that their parents do it. I did not want my students going home and telling their parents what was being said in the classroom so I address the parents of the student who started this. They were very aggressive and told me to stay out of their business. What should I do to make sure it doesn't happen again?

Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
You could bring it up to administration, you can talk to other teachers around you that have been teaching longer and may have been in situations like this. Get their input on it. If anything send a note to the parents again and bring it up to administration about how the parents were rude about the situation and didn't seem to care about the other students. There is also the solution of sending home a letter to other parents about what is happening in the classroom, so they are aware of what is happening and you are doing your best to resolve the matter.
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: Sending home a note constanty could lead to a bad situation. Especially if the parent knows that it is the child's fault that they are being questioned, they could end up taking it out on the child.
Rated On: March 1, 2017 5:23 pm
Rated By: juduje
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I would not approach this situation like this. I feel like it is an invasion of privacy to tell other parents what goes on in someone else's home.
Rated On: March 2, 2017 4:01 am
Rated By: ybabaJ
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: This solution is not helpful
Rated On: March 2, 2017 11:55 pm
Rated By: tuBaZu
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: You're supposed to be the one making the solution, not suggesting to go to other teachers for a solution.
Rated On: March 3, 2017 11:03 pm
Rated By: jeReHy
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: Not a good solution.
Rated On: March 6, 2017 11:17 pm
Rated By: Vuqaqa
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Yes this could be helpful, but I disagree that administration should be involved unless its goes on in the classroom further.
Rated On: October 12, 2017 4:55 pm
Rated By: yneLuM
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I think this solution would do more harm than good as alerting other parents will more than likely anger the parents doing this behavior and it will bring other parents and their concerns in the mix, making the situation larger than it needs to be.
Rated On: October 15, 2017 4:26 am
Rated By: qedeDe
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: Absolutely not. One you shouldn't be talking around to other teachers. Two I wouldn't send a letter home again, this needs to be done in person. And three, I would never send an email/ letter to other parents in the class because that is pointing out the other family and going to make all the parents worry, upset, and it will become out of hand.
Rated On: February 24, 2019 7:58 pm
Rated By: upehaS
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I would not let other parents know
Rated On: October 31, 2021 5:23 pm
Rated By: quHyra