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Case: Which parent wins?
I have a student who's parents fight over who gets to pick up the child. The child never knows who to go with because they make him feel bad. Who do I let the child go with? And how can I make this stop?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
This sounds like a situation in which you need to involve the school's social worker. If the parents are causing their student this much stress and bad feelings, the school needs to potentially intervene. I would sit down with the social worker and just ask what can be done about the situation. Then, I would set up a parent-teacher conference and discuss the effects this is having on their child as they may not be aware of any negative effects. |
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| Comments: I agree with the fact that when it is a bigger situation like this, it belongs to higher power then the teacher. |
| Rated On: March 1, 2017 5:15 pm |
| Rated By: juduje |
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| Comments: I don't feel that the social worker needs to be involved before the parents are made aware of what they're doing. |
| Rated On: March 2, 2017 11:17 pm |
| Rated By: tuBaZu |
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| Comments: I don't believe this situation requires the involvement of the social worker. That approach is too extreme for the situation. The parent(s)-teacher conference focused on discussing the problem is more reasonable. |
| Rated On: March 3, 2017 8:33 pm |
| Rated By: Jessica J. |
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| Comments: A social worker definitely seems necessary in this situation. |
| Rated On: March 3, 2017 9:24 pm |
| Rated By: jeReHy |
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| Comments: I would do something very similar to this, given the situation. |
| Rated On: March 4, 2017 4:33 pm |
| Rated By: uHubaT |
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| Comments: Social worker most definitely needs to be involved! |
| Rated On: July 9, 2017 2:05 am |
| Rated By: jeRumu |
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| Comments: Going to the social worker first would not be the wisest solution. Start small, but only escalate the issue if necessary. |
| Rated On: October 11, 2017 12:40 am |
| Rated By: yGeHyz |
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| Comments: Speaking with someone who knows how to handle this situation is necessary and having the parents be aware of the changes that needs to happen for the well being of their child. |
| Rated On: October 12, 2017 4:38 pm |
| Rated By: yneLuM |
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| Comments: I agree that it would be good to involve someone outside of your self in this kind of situation. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2017 1:27 am |
| Rated By: GaVyme |
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| Comments: The solution is good because it allows another adult to become part of the equation and also gets rid of the issue of legal matters within a split child relationship |
| Rated On: October 15, 2017 11:39 pm |
| Rated By: duPuSa |
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| Comments: I agree, I don't agree that teachers should get involved at this level to meddle in the personal business of the parents, as there are resources for that as you pointed out..."social workers". |
| Rated On: February 22, 2018 2:25 pm |
| Rated By: aJysah |
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| Comments: I feel this to be a very effective and useful solution. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 10:37 pm |
| Rated By: aWyreQ |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
| Rated On: February 28, 2018 12:34 am |
| Rated By: agedyQ |
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| Comments: This solution is useful |
| Rated On: February 19, 2019 2:31 pm |
| Rated By: Hyhame |
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| Comments: Bringing in the school social worker would be helpful after you have already spoken with both parents and they were still not able to work anything out as adults. As adults it is our responsibility to our children to not show that type of behavior and be mature. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 1:52 pm |
| Rated By: Keith Evans |
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| Comments: I think that having someone there to intervene may be the best option. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2019 9:19 pm |
| Rated By: JyLaVe |
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| Comments: I feel like taking these steps to get advice will be the best course of action in coming up with the right solution. |
| Rated On: February 23, 2020 10:21 pm |
| Rated By: Taylor G. |
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| Comments: I would definitely recommend the social worker as the teacher may be too far out of their league. The social worker is specifically trained for this scenario. |
| Rated On: October 31, 2021 5:19 am |
| Rated By: aseTyD |
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| Comments: yes good idea |
| Rated On: October 31, 2021 5:06 pm |
| Rated By: quHyra |
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