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  Case: On parent is in and another is out
When I was interning in a 5th grade class, I had a student that was having trouble in class. When we had parents conferences, one parent was all in and wanting to make sure the student was set and would discipline him if he was not completing work and losing his homework. The other parent didn't care that the student wasn't doing well in the classroom and just didn't seem to care about his grades.
How would I deal with this, if I was the teacher talking to these parents?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I would start collecting the student's work for a portfolio. This way it can be shown to both parents. If the child is living with the parent who doesn't care, his work will reflect that. Then, at the end of the year when the parent wants to know why their child is failing or not getting an A or B, you have a portfolio of work to show them.
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: Although this is all meant to be helpful, I believe this would not be the type of thing that the teacher is responsibe for doing. We aren't here to help the parent be a better parent, we are here to help the student.
Rated On: March 1, 2017 5:13 pm
Rated By: juduje
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I would not do this to an extent. The portfolio if created should be shown to share the importance of the students education, not to blame one parent instead of the other.
Rated On: March 5, 2017 1:14 am
Rated By: zazyny
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: This is a great way to justify the grade!
Rated On: October 12, 2017 12:22 am
Rated By: JeVese
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: very insightful and a great solution.
Rated On: October 15, 2017 9:27 pm
Rated By: ZyQeHy
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I don't think this is the best solution as the parent who isn't involved with the student might not care about the work in the portfolio. They might have the same attitude about the portfolio as about the rest of the schoolwork.
Rated On: February 21, 2018 4:34 pm
Rated By: nehury
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: This solution is not respectful of the student or of the parent that does care. It isn't our job to "prove the other parent wrong". It's our job to ensure the success of our students.
Rated On: October 13, 2018 4:51 pm
Rated By: byXyha
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: This is wrong. I would never do that.
Rated On: October 14, 2018 10:01 pm
Rated By: MeHuZu
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: The problem I have is that it means the student has a bad grade at the end of the year instead of trying to help them succeed during the year.
Rated On: October 31, 2021 5:16 am
Rated By: aseTyD
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: this is an okay idea.
Rated On: October 31, 2021 5:16 pm
Rated By: quHyra