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  Case: Talking like a white girl
I work at an inner-city school and I am the only white person in the classroom. Whenever I have a behavior issue with a student, I follow our school guidelines. When discussing it with my mentor teacher and team leader, they always respond that I need to quit talking to my students like a white girl. They inform me that my students come from the ghetto and sometimes it is necessary to be loud and "ghetto" to get respect from students. I don't agree with this. Any suggestions of how to get respect from my students and have them follow the rules of the classroom?
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Your team leader and mentor are only showing you the way that they see it working. You can try different things as a teacher, thats how you learn and become better. I volunteer in a situation almost the exact same as yours and I have seen how my teacher and mentors work with the class and I have made my own way of doing things with my students. I love them dearly, but because I am soft spoken and very kind, they think that they can walk over me. Lately I have made it clear in a nice caring way that this is not okay. I sat them down and had a one on one. I told them them that even though I am only here a few days a week, does not mean I don't deserve the respect that my teachers get. I told them gently that I am not playing with them anymore and if they can't respect me, then they will have to be punished. Ever since then, my kids have been nothing but good when I am around. Sometimes students in this situation need to understand that you love them, but they cannot do bad things, because it is simply not okay.
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
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Rated On: March 18, 2018 1:47 am
Rated By: aJaTyb