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Case: Field trip go wrong
I had parents chaperon for our field trip to an amusement park. The one mom took her group which had her child in it, out of the permitter of where they were allowed to go. I told her many times to stay where they were permitted but she keeps doing it. Do I take her group and tell her to leave since she is responsible for the children in her group?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
Hi aDaWaV,
First, I would make sure that the parent is aware of the perimeters. Perhaps she is confused as to where exactly the perimeters are. If she is not confused about this and is blatantly going against instructions, then I would explain to her the importance of keeping them in the perimeter (i.e. student safety). If the mom still goes against this after you explicitly explain the purpose of perimeters, then I would regroup the students and chaperones in a way that puts the mom in with your group. If there aren't enough chaperones to accommodate this regrouping, consider creating larger groups of students so that you can be in the same group as the mother. It is better to be safe than sorry. Basically, regroup, make it through the day, and do not invite that parent to chaperone again. If she tries to chaperone again in the future, just find a way to politely explain that she is not needed.
Melissa |
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Comments: You're giving the chaperone too much leniency. Just kick her out of the group and tell her to go home if she can't follow the rules and put students safety at potential risk. |
Rated On: March 3, 2017 11:02 pm |
Rated By: jeReHy |
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Comments: This would be an appropriate response. |
Rated On: March 3, 2017 11:24 pm |
Rated By: aDuZyJ |
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Comments: Very nice response. |
Rated On: March 4, 2017 2:40 am |
Rated By: Shelby Farrell |
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Comments: Great approach to this problem! |
Rated On: March 4, 2017 11:18 pm |
Rated By: atugym |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 5:19 pm |
Rated By: ysyver |
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Comments: This is a great idea in regrouping the groups a few times until it works. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 9:49 pm |
Rated By: uheVaX |
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Comments: I agree and believe that regrouping may be a good solution to the ongoing issue with the chaperone. |
Rated On: July 8, 2017 2:06 pm |
Rated By: aByveM |
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Comments: Great suggestion to regroup! |
Rated On: July 9, 2017 2:01 am |
Rated By: jeRumu |
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Comments: This solution address the parent politely but also lets her know that her actions will not be tolerated and should she continue them then she may not be with her child in a group anymore or she will have to walk in a lager group with the teacher and other students. Should it come to that then unfortunately that particular parent will not be incited to chaperone anymore. |
Rated On: October 9, 2017 3:21 pm |
Rated By: Rachel Stephens |
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Comments: Good idea! |
Rated On: October 10, 2017 3:23 pm |
Rated By: aNaMeJ |
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Comments: This solutions seems good because it does not force me to send the parent home right away. I'm sure they would fight it and their child would be upset as well. I would simply take on more responsibility and then not invite her to chaperone again. |
Rated On: October 10, 2017 5:44 pm |
Rated By: yReNyp |
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Comments: This would solve all parts of the problem and give the mom a chance to respect the rules. |
Rated On: October 12, 2017 12:01 am |
Rated By: JeVese |
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Comments: This is a perfect example of a solution. Who knows, she may be unaware of where her perimeter is, but if it continues it needs to be addressed that her assistance isn't needed. |
Rated On: October 12, 2017 4:33 pm |
Rated By: yneLuM |
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Comments: This solution is helpful because it maintains respect for the parent, but explains why she needs to follow the rules or will not be invited back. |
Rated On: October 13, 2017 3:11 pm |
Rated By: uqaTaq |
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Comments: I think that this answer explains perfectly the steps that would need to be taken to handle a parent that is not following your rules. |
Rated On: October 14, 2017 1:23 am |
Rated By: GaVyme |
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Comments: Agreed! |
Rated On: October 14, 2017 2:04 am |
Rated By: emetub |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this. |
Rated On: October 15, 2017 9:25 pm |
Rated By: yLuDeh |
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Comments: These seem like good solutions. |
Rated On: October 15, 2017 10:23 pm |
Rated By: ysyByg |
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Comments: It is a great idea to clarify the instructions to the parent so there is not any confusion. I have also witness chaperones disobeying instructions this ultimately takes away from the children's experience on field trips. Great suggestion! |
Rated On: February 20, 2018 4:04 pm |
Rated By: medega |
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Comments: This solution is wise because it first involves the teacher ensuring that the parent understands the directions, rather than assuming the parent is blatantly ignoring you. I also think putting yourself, as the teacher, in the same group as this parent, is an excellent solution, as you can help her to keep the students within the boundaries. Possibly she needs help managing a group. |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 4:47 pm |
Rated By: eguPud |
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Comments: Great approach to this situation. Let's all hope the parent was simply confused about the boundaries and discussing it again solved it. However you can not risk the student's safety if she chooses to disregard the rules. |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 5:41 pm |
Rated By: Wendy |
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Comments: I feel this to be a very effective and useful solution. |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 10:36 pm |
Rated By: aWyreQ |
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Comments: I would do this, you give an answer for what to do while in the situation that makes sense. |
Rated On: March 11, 2018 7:37 pm |
Rated By: aJaTyb |
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Comments: In this situation, I agree with this solution. |
Rated On: October 13, 2018 3:40 am |
Rated By: yreQan |
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Comments: Make the boundaries clear should be the first step, she might not know them. If after you explained the boundaries, she take off, you have to tell her that you need to regroup the students. |
Rated On: October 14, 2018 5:03 am |
Rated By: tabape |
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Comments: A very profesional response |
Rated On: October 15, 2018 12:54 am |
Rated By: aLureP |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
Rated On: February 19, 2019 7:32 pm |
Rated By: GeQapy |
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Comments: I like all the solutions your provided. Great post!
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Rated On: February 19, 2019 10:35 pm |
Rated By: dyBese |
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Comments: Making sure the parent know the rules would be helpful or else the chaperone won't know what to do. I think regrouping to keep an eye on the parent is the best way to this situation. |
Rated On: February 20, 2019 4:17 am |
Rated By: Meghan Fletcher |
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Comments: Ensuring the parent is aware of the perimeters is a good first step to take before blatantly assuming she is intentionally breaking the rules. If the parent does not listen after having the rules clarified to her, I agree it would be best to have her stay in your group, since she is putting the safety of other students at risk. As a teacher, it is your top priority to keep students safe at school and during field trips, and unfortunately this cannot be accomplished when a chaperone ignores the rules. |
Rated On: February 21, 2019 6:11 am |
Rated By: dygavu |
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Comments: This post is excellent. I really like how it mentions explaining the boundaries for the parent. It is an easy way to pull the parent back into following the rules. |
Rated On: February 22, 2019 11:08 pm |
Rated By: Haley Kennedy |
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Comments: Well said. |
Rated On: February 23, 2019 5:33 pm |
Rated By: ejyqeq |
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Comments: I feel this solution covers a lot of situations in a respectful manner. |
Rated On: July 3, 2019 7:27 pm |
Rated By: yQebyb |
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Comments: I think this is a great solution. I really liked the ideas given in this post to solve the problem. |
Rated On: October 19, 2019 4:27 pm |
Rated By: Anastasia Stampoulis |
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Comments: good solution |
Rated On: October 21, 2019 1:44 am |
Rated By: ZySaje |
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Comments: I think this is the best solution to not offend the parent and to help her understand that her behavior is putting other kids at risk. |
Rated On: February 23, 2020 7:17 pm |
Rated By: emaXub |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. |
Rated On: February 23, 2020 11:36 pm |
Rated By: Amber Hyatt |
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Comments: I agree that this is the most respectful way to go about the conversation. |
Rated On: March 4, 2021 11:39 pm |
Rated By: yqeRas |
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Comments: I love this solution because it hits all possibilities. Great advice. |
Rated On: March 6, 2021 6:20 pm |
Rated By: QaRepe |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
Rated On: October 26, 2021 1:37 am |
Rated By: aVuLyX |
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Comments: A great solution to make sure that no problem ensures. It will also prevent further mishaps should it be done on purpose. |
Rated On: October 31, 2021 5:17 am |
Rated By: aseTyD |
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Comments: I think this is a good solution especially not letting her come back if this behavior continues. |
Rated On: April 1, 2022 9:35 pm |
Rated By: eSysyv |
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Comments: This is a good solution for the circumstance. |
Rated On: April 2, 2023 2:28 am |
Rated By: GeduVy |
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Comments: I think a talk like this could help be the warning she needs before not being able to help out again. |
Rated On: November 1, 2023 10:06 pm |
Rated By: aBuQat |
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