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Case: Divorce parents
I have a child in my ESE internship classroom where the parents always fight on who has to pick up their child, or always have the nannies pick him up, both parents have shown no interest in the child's well being and has said raising him is like raising a monkey, they only care to see who will win him in the divorce so the other parent will have to pay child support, should I report the family?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
It is very difficult to be in a situation where you feel the parents do not care for their kid, however, they are your student so you want the best for them. It would not be best to report the parents since they are not technically doing anything directly harmful to their child. The best choice would be to focus on your student and how to help them to their best during class. In regards to their parents, I would have a parent teacher conference to discuss a set schedule for the students pick up; again, focus this is for the best interest of the student. For instance, Monday, Wednesday and Friday, their nanny can pick them up, Tuesday can be the mother, and Thursday the father. This allows them to argue less but still focuses on the child and their experiences in and after school. |
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Comments: I agree with this solution because it is centered around the child and their needs, and making them feel welcome in your classroom.
Sitting down with the parents will help to set expectations and learn about their seemingly confusing home life currently. This may also shed some light on the assistance the child is receiving at home, and what other school services would be appropriate. |
| Rated On: July 10, 2017 1:29 am |
| Rated By: Cali Pohlman |
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| Comments: Good |
| Rated On: October 3, 2017 6:00 pm |
| Rated By: NuXepy |
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| Comments: this response is sensible and kind. I believe this would do the family the most good. |
| Rated On: October 10, 2017 5:36 pm |
| Rated By: yReNyp |
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| Comments: I thought this solution was unique and detailed appropriately to suit the students needs. The nannie as said, is a way to break some of that tension up. Great post! |
| Rated On: October 12, 2017 2:34 pm |
| Rated By: yneLuM |
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| Comments: I think this solution is the best because it will allow you as the teacher to sit down with the parents and think of a way to best help the child feel safe and happy. |
| Rated On: October 13, 2017 10:33 am |
| Rated By: PaZume |
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| Comments: I think the schedule would be good for not only the parents but the student. A schedule would create a routine for the child. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2017 1:03 am |
| Rated By: GaVyme |
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| Comments: Nice! |
| Rated On: October 14, 2017 1:57 am |
| Rated By: emetub |
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| Comments: I agree having a solution to let both the kid and the parent know a schedule so the child is not confused. I would also talk to the parents about the situation and how this may be affecting their child. Reporting is serious and comes with serious repercussions that can hurt the family. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2017 1:08 am |
| Rated By: LuXaSe |
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| Comments: very insightful and a great solution. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2017 9:21 pm |
| Rated By: ZyQeHy |
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| Comments: This is a much more probable solution. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2017 12:09 am |
| Rated By: hepasy |
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| Rated On: October 16, 2017 3:56 am |
| Rated By: guXyLy |
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| Comments: I feel that it is best for everyone to get on the same page as soon as possible, but beyond that there is not much you could do. |
| Rated On: February 19, 2018 7:44 pm |
| Rated By: dymaDa |
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| Comments: I agree. This is a great approach to this situation. |
| Rated On: February 21, 2018 8:54 pm |
| Rated By: uguduB |
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| Comments: I think giving the parents recommendations is out of the prevue of a teacher. I think the focus should be on what disruptions they are causing to the student and the class. |
| Rated On: February 22, 2018 12:50 pm |
| Rated By: aJysah |
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| Comments: I like your idea of a parent teacher conference to schedule who picks up when. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2018 5:02 am |
| Rated By: upyWyH |
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| Comments: I feel this to be a very effective and useful solution. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 10:28 pm |
| Rated By: aWyreQ |
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| Comments: I think this is a very useful solution. |
| Rated On: February 26, 2018 7:06 am |
| Rated By: Kelsey Lutzi |
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| Comments: I agree with you, they aren't doing anything illegal so reporting them isn't best for the child. |
| Rated On: July 3, 2018 12:02 pm |
| Rated By: Dawn Palaio |
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| Comments: I agree, keep it all about the student, don't make it seem like its all the parents fault. Its about what is best for their child and his or her needs. |
| Rated On: October 8, 2018 4:10 pm |
| Rated By: Brittany |
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| Comments: I think is a great idea call the parents in that way they can focus on the child not on who is winning who. As a teacher you want to focus on the time the child spends with you in the classroom. Definitely an schedule will be easier to follow. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2018 4:52 am |
| Rated By: tabape |
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| Comments: This is a very good way to respond to this situation. I would do this. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2018 7:41 pm |
| Rated By: sadaze |
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| Comments: I found your solution to be well thought out and very helpful! |
| Rated On: October 15, 2018 12:44 am |
| Rated By: zetyWy |
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| Comments: I would have never thought about an online read aloud! might be beneficial. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2018 12:49 am |
| Rated By: aLureP |
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| Comments: n |
| Rated On: October 15, 2018 3:51 am |
| Rated By: WapeHu |
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| Comments: I love this solution, especially setting aside different days for each student. |
| Rated On: February 19, 2019 10:28 pm |
| Rated By: dyBese |
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| Comments: I agree, it may be best to simply focuse on helping the child feel comfortable in class, rather than potentially making the situation worse by reporting the parents without knowing the full story. Focusing on the student's learning and classroom experience can go a long way. Potentially recommending a fixed after school pick up schedule for the child may be beneficial, as it will reduce fighting and establish routine and consistency in the students life. |
| Rated On: February 21, 2019 5:44 am |
| Rated By: dygavu |
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| Comments: I agree! |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 8:57 pm |
| Rated By: Ryduga |
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| Comments: Good idea. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2019 1:01 am |
| Rated By: evyRub |
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| Rated On: October 10, 2019 1:39 pm |
| Rated By: pagyDa |
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| Comments: I completely agree with you. Nice solution. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2019 11:59 pm |
| Rated By: Amber Hyatt |
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| Comments: Great idea |
| Rated On: October 19, 2020 3:25 am |
| Rated By: edudyp |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
| Rated On: October 26, 2021 1:25 am |
| Rated By: aVuLyX |
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