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Case: The Perturbed Parent
A parent has arrived unannounced just before school starts and is demanding an immediate meeting to discuss her son's grade in maths. Parent : I am very busy and need to talk to you now about my son's maths grade.
You : ???
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I would calmly tell the parent that I have to start class and that we cannot meet now. I would say that I would like to meet, but that I couldn't discuss the student's grades while my students were walking in to class, to protect her son's privacy. I would give her my number at the school and e-mail address and say that I would love to make an appointment or talk over the phone at her convenience, as long as it is not during school. She could even call later that afternoon or evening. |
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Rated On: April 18, 2013 7:21 pm |
Rated By: uDuhyN |
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Rated On: April 19, 2013 12:35 am |
Rated By: Lili G |
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Comments: This is a great way to handle this problem. I definitely agree that it wouldn't be good to meet while students are coming into the classroom. I would also let the parent know that I definitely want to meet with them as soon as possible to discuss their concerns and think that suggesting talking to them that evening via phone or email is a great idea. |
Rated On: October 18, 2014 7:55 pm |
Rated By: esaSaV |
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Comments: I think this is a good approach and i would do the same. |
Rated On: October 21, 2014 1:54 am |
Rated By: qyryMa |
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Comments: Offering many forms of communication is a great idea. |
Rated On: February 25, 2015 8:04 pm |
Rated By: Jen |
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Comments: I agree, your response is handling the parent in a very calm and professional manner. |
Rated On: March 1, 2015 7:37 pm |
Rated By: Charity Knowles |
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Comments: This solution is considerate of the parent and honest at the same time, great solution. |
Rated On: March 2, 2015 1:18 am |
Rated By: Qebysu |
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Comments: I think this is a good approach to the situation. |
Rated On: March 2, 2015 3:45 am |
Rated By: vuDybe |
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Comments: I would do the exact same thing. Great suggestion. |
Rated On: March 15, 2015 7:04 pm |
Rated By: Morgan Jasper |
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Comments: This is a great solution. |
Rated On: October 16, 2015 5:11 pm |
Rated By: uqeMeg |
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Comments: Agreed. |
Rated On: March 4, 2016 5:16 pm |
Rated By: beTyZa |
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Comments: I like making sure the parent knows its at their convience except during class. |
Rated On: March 6, 2016 8:40 pm |
Rated By: uPuneq |
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Comments: This allows for better communication and shows the parent that the teacher cares, but it is important to schedule a meeting so all concerns are addressed. |
Rated On: October 12, 2016 10:07 pm |
Rated By: pyGyga |
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Comments: I agree, this discussion would need to be private and not right before class starts. This discussion needs to take place sometime after school where there is more time and privacy. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 6:56 pm |
Rated By: avenyB |
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Comments: This solution is useful because it protects the students’s privacy and sets boundaries for the parent to follow. |
Rated On: July 10, 2017 1:49 am |
Rated By: Cali Pohlman |
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Comments: This is an excellent solution because you are deescalating and still offering your time... even if it's a bit later than the parents would like. |
Rated On: October 16, 2017 2:26 pm |
Rated By: Ramos |
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Comments: This would be a great approach. |
Rated On: October 21, 2019 1:41 am |
Rated By: JeTeQu |
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Comments: This is a great solution. |
Rated On: February 19, 2020 6:58 pm |
Rated By: JeRaGu |
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Comments: I agree with this. The parent needs to understand that they cannot just disrupt the class especially when wanting to discuss something that is not public knowledge. |
Rated On: October 14, 2020 7:19 pm |
Rated By: RyWaPy |
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