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Case: Changing stories
After chastising the student for deliberate disobedience and insubordination during class, somehow you know a different story would work its way home. Sure enough! That very same afternoon the boy's father, called the school to demand an immediate conference.
How do you deal with this situation?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I would oblige the parent's request to have a conference. It would probably be a good idea to have a conference anyway since the student is being disobedient. I would outline for the father why I believe the child's behavior is insubordinate. I would show him my notes on specific events that happened on specific days. I would listen to the father's concerns and assure him that what I am telling him is the truth. |
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Rated On: April 19, 2013 12:53 am |
Rated By: Lili G |
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Comments: Good solution, I agree when you say the teacher should outline every insubordinate behavior that the student did. |
Rated On: October 14, 2014 8:01 pm |
Rated By: Megan Lee |
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Comments: With notes ready then the situation can be explained much better. |
Rated On: October 14, 2014 11:09 pm |
Rated By: ybaHyp |
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Comments: I agree I think the conference is needed and back up information on prior incidents should be on hand |
Rated On: October 17, 2014 6:23 pm |
Rated By: ehaZeb |
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Comments: That is the best route to go when dealing with upset parents. I think having documentation of the events and actions that the child has done against the rules is the best way to show the father that you are not lying but telling the truth. |
Rated On: October 17, 2014 8:50 pm |
Rated By: MaByvu |
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Comments: This seems like a very effective way of dealing with the situation. Sitting down and talking to the parents face to face will build the trust between the parent and teacher and allows for much easier communication about the issues. |
Rated On: October 18, 2014 7:01 am |
Rated By: Kayla Campbell |
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Comments: I think that using documentation is a great approach as the dad will probably come into the meeting with a hot head. |
Rated On: October 19, 2014 4:12 pm |
Rated By: uVejeg |
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Comments: I think this is a great solution to this situation. |
Rated On: October 19, 2014 11:32 pm |
Rated By: duGyJy |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this. |
Rated On: October 19, 2014 11:34 pm |
Rated By: apened |
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Comments: Notes on specific events/days of misbehaver is key to back up your case. |
Rated On: October 20, 2014 3:40 am |
Rated By: Maryssa Kane |
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Comments: I would do this too. |
Rated On: October 21, 2014 2:16 am |
Rated By: qyryMa |
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Comments: Good solution. |
Rated On: February 27, 2015 6:48 pm |
Rated By: myNyHy |
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Comments: I agree, a conference is needed anyway for his disobedience. I would gather notes together to take with me to the conference like you said to address them to the father and also hear his concerns. |
Rated On: March 1, 2015 7:41 pm |
Rated By: Charity Knowles |
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Rated On: March 1, 2015 7:46 pm |
Rated By: Ashley Noe |
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Comments: Very important to detail the exact events, that way the father can see what has really been happening. |
Rated On: March 2, 2015 1:47 am |
Rated By: Qebysu |
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Comments: Great Solution!!! |
Rated On: March 20, 2015 8:16 pm |
Rated By: aSaByN |
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Comments: Great solution. This is why documentation is so important. |
Rated On: October 4, 2015 2:27 am |
Rated By: aDuvej |
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Comments: This is a great solution. |
Rated On: October 16, 2015 5:18 pm |
Rated By: uqeMeg |
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Comments: Very good solution. I would use this solution if I was in this situation. |
Rated On: March 3, 2016 2:45 pm |
Rated By: uMyQeX |
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Comments: Agreed. |
Rated On: March 4, 2016 5:15 pm |
Rated By: beTyZa |
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Comments: I do agree with you on this solution for this case. Parent/Teacher conferences can be tricky so having the proper materials to provide them with resources can definitely ease some tension. Listening to the father's concerns can assure him that you care for his son and that you want to do what you can do help him. |
Rated On: March 4, 2017 11:24 pm |
Rated By: uresaM |
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Comments: I would do the same thing. Take notes of the child's actions to show the parent should help convince him that you telling the truth. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 7:12 pm |
Rated By: avenyB |
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Comments: Great solution, there’s always ways to show the parents some type of evidence to support your side of the story. |
Rated On: October 20, 2019 4:00 pm |
Rated By: maVeqy |
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Comments: Having the conference is necessary to get the situation under control. |
Rated On: October 20, 2019 5:33 pm |
Rated By: LeDyqa |
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Comments: This is a great solution. |
Rated On: February 19, 2020 7:22 pm |
Rated By: JeRaGu |
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