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Case: ESE Parent Blaming Teachers
In my internship, I am working in a middle school in the ASD unit. One of our students has a tendency to make violent and inappropriate comments. For example, he recently told one of the teachers in the unit that he was going to slit her throat after she took away a drawing that he was making during instruction time. More recently, he had an altercation with the PE Coach which resulted in him kicking her four times. Due to his situation, the coach did not decide to take serious action against the student, but he was written a disciplinary referral and his parents were contacted. In response to the situation, the student's mother sent a quite nasty email basically blaming the coach which stated that she felt as though the PE Coach could benefit from learning strategies on how to deal with students with autism, and that in future altercations, her son responds best to simply being ignored when he gets upset. She then kept her son out of school for a week so that he could "deal with the trauma he had experienced in PE". The PE coach at our school is ESE certified and has worked with students in our unit for many years. She is understandably quite upset at the mother's response to this altercation, and is now considering pressing charges against the student. How do you all think that the coach should respond to this situation?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I would recommend that the coach ask for a conference with the parent and teacher. Sometimes it is easier to explain the extent of a situation in person. This would also give the coach an opportunity to explain their qualifications and experience with students with ASD. Knowing that the teacher and coach are coming from a place of experience and knowledge, on top of love, may help the parent to make any necessary adjustments for the student. |
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| Comments: I think a parent conference is a great idea. I agree with you that sometimes things are best explained in person rather than over an email. Also, sometimes people say things that they do not mean in the heat of the moment when they are angry. Now that the mother has calmed down, maybe they could come up with an understanding. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2018 8:43 pm |
| Rated By: juduje |
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| Comments: Its important to get the parents involved |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 2:01 am |
| Rated By: yqeQag |
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| Comments: Couldn't have said it better myself! |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 6:48 am |
| Rated By: epuMat |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 3:43 pm |
| Rated By: Vunypu |
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| Comments: I feel this to be a very effective and useful solution. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2018 10:27 pm |
| Rated By: aWyreQ |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
| Rated On: February 28, 2018 1:00 am |
| Rated By: agedyQ |
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| Comments: I think this is a helpful solution and will definitely help the parents understand the P.E. teacher more. It will perhaps also shed light on some information that may have been left out since the parent is receiving a one-sided story. |
| Rated On: July 6, 2018 4:25 pm |
| Rated By: Rochelle Young |
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| Comments: i agree I think it would more appropriate to have a conference with the child's parents to discuss the situation and come up with some possible solutions. |
| Rated On: October 10, 2018 10:59 pm |
| Rated By: Rachel |
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| Comments: A conference is the best choice of action. Speaking one on one will give both sides an opportunity to see what happened and get their feelings out. I think a common ground could also be found. |
| Rated On: October 11, 2018 3:17 am |
| Rated By: eguQep |
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| Comments: I agree a conference would be the best solution. The mother may be reacting out of emotion and need to see what the truth is. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2018 5:16 pm |
| Rated By: aVugaG |
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| Comments: Having a conference in this serious situation is necessary. I agree the coach needs to be able to explain to the mother that she has experience with students who have ASD. This might soften the mother's response and encourage her to work with the teacher and coach. Communication is key. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2018 8:00 pm |
| Rated By: yJuhuv |
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| Comments: If I were in this scenario, I would do exactly the same. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2018 9:59 pm |
| Rated By: MeHuZu |
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| Comments: A meeting can change for good or for bad, but let's hope that neither the teacher nor the mother is in a defensive way when they meet to talk. They can review the situation and discuss some approaches. Both sides can benefit because both of them have experience. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2018 10:17 pm |
| Rated By: tabape |
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| Comments: Agreed |
| Rated On: October 15, 2018 12:16 am |
| Rated By: aLureP |
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| Comments: This solution is helpful |
| Rated On: February 19, 2019 2:40 pm |
| Rated By: Hyhame |
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| Comments: This would be a successful solution. |
| Rated On: February 19, 2019 4:01 pm |
| Rated By: baJeTe |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this! |
| Rated On: February 19, 2019 7:31 pm |
| Rated By: GeQapy |
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| Comments: I agree |
| Rated On: February 21, 2019 5:15 am |
| Rated By: Lawrence Poluchowicz |
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| Comments: I agree, an in person conference would be beneficial in my opinion. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 6:52 pm |
| Rated By: yVevyQ |
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| Comments: Face to face communication is always a good way to try and solve problems. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 8:28 pm |
| Rated By: Ryduga |
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| Rated On: February 25, 2019 1:31 am |
| Rated By: ZyQeHy |
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| Comments: I agree |
| Rated On: July 7, 2019 9:06 pm |
| Rated By: SeGyHu |
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| Comments: I agree |
| Rated On: October 15, 2019 3:22 pm |
| Rated By: uWaMyB |
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| Comments: I Thing this is a great solution. |
| Rated On: October 20, 2019 6:53 pm |
| Rated By: JeTeQu |
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| Comments: good idea |
| Rated On: November 4, 2019 1:30 am |
| Rated By: seJuQa |
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| Comments: I think this is a great solution. |
| Rated On: February 23, 2020 10:07 pm |
| Rated By: Torii Podmokly |
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| Comments: Good idea |
| Rated On: October 19, 2020 3:20 am |
| Rated By: edudyp |
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| Comments: talking face to face is always a great idea, I would definitely do that. |
| Rated On: October 27, 2021 8:45 pm |
| Rated By: Colleen Buckwalter |
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| Comments: This solution is a great idea to keep in mind if anything similar were to happen in the future. |
| Rated On: April 2, 2023 1:51 am |
| Rated By: GeduVy |
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