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Case: Flirting
I am currently an intern and I have been to a few schools where the some of the coaches and male teachers flirt with me. What should I do?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
This unacceptable, and should be addressed immediately. You should not feel uncomfortable in an environment where you are all suppose to be professional and working, as well as working around children. I would personally try talking to either the teacher you are interning with, or if you are not interning with a cooperating teacher or they are apart of the problem, you should go to the principle or your university supervisor (if you're interning with a university). I would personally, if this were me in the situation, also try talking to those who are flirting and making me uncomfortable. I know sometimes flirting can be difficult to identify if it's not straight forward, a lot of people can mistake being polite with flirting. So, I think it would help to make those suspected of it alert of how you feel, that way they can acknowledge the situation and avoid making you uncomfortable again. If they refuse or react negatively, definitely move on to what I mentioned in the beginning and go straight to someone in charge. |
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Comments: Good solution! |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 2:00 am |
Rated By: baJeTe |
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Comments: Couldn't have said it better myself! |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 6:49 am |
Rated By: epuMat |
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Comments: I agree that this is extremely unacceptable behavior. |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 3:16 pm |
Rated By: XuNaWa |
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Comments: This post calls out the importance of maintaining a professional environment in the workplace. It is the responsibility of everyone within the workplace to make the environment positive and professional. This post also mentions the importance of being straightforward with the offending party and to alert others to the situation. |
Rated On: February 26, 2018 1:27 am |
Rated By: medega |
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Comments: I think this is a very useful solution. |
Rated On: February 26, 2018 7:08 am |
Rated By: Kelsey Lutzi |
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Comments: Very detailed and well stated post. I also believe the conflict should be addressed ASAP as well. |
Rated On: July 4, 2018 8:52 pm |
Rated By: zeXyBy |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. If flirting makes a person uncomfortable it needs to be addressed. |
Rated On: October 11, 2018 8:48 pm |
Rated By: WyVeTu |
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Comments: Being straightforward is always the best and only option when it comes to flirting! Great suggestion! |
Rated On: February 20, 2019 12:58 am |
Rated By: dyBese |
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Comments: I agree! This situation is very unprofessional. |
Rated On: February 25, 2019 2:23 am |
Rated By: eNesuS |
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Comments: I like this solution. Even though it's most likely flirting, it's possible they're just really friendly. So you should discuss it with them to make sure. If it's flirting, definitely talk to administration. |
Rated On: February 25, 2019 5:21 am |
Rated By: Joseph Scharfschwerdt |
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Comments: I completely agree with you!!! This cannot happen |
Rated On: July 7, 2019 8:51 pm |
Rated By: Brenda Perez Prieto |
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Comments: I think this is a great solution. |
Rated On: February 19, 2020 7:16 pm |
Rated By: Torii Podmokly |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. |
Rated On: February 21, 2020 7:17 pm |
Rated By: vaMuvy |
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Comments: This is what I would do if I was in this situation. |
Rated On: February 24, 2020 1:40 am |
Rated By: ameteV |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. |
Rated On: February 24, 2020 1:44 am |
Rated By: eVyDaL |
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Comments: I agree with this solution. The situation cannot be ignored because it might get worse. |
Rated On: October 18, 2020 12:56 pm |
Rated By: RyWaPy |
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Comments: This is well thought out solution. I agree with everything you said! |
Rated On: March 7, 2021 9:33 pm |
Rated By: turyhu |
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Comments: This is a good solution and trying to talk to other teachers who can help you. |
Rated On: March 7, 2021 11:12 pm |
Rated By: zeZedu |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this! |
Rated On: June 30, 2021 5:54 pm |
Rated By: MeMuXu |
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Comments: this is a professional way to handle the situation. |
Rated On: October 31, 2021 7:12 pm |
Rated By: aNabaR |
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Comments: Sometimes flirting is hard to identify. But I think we know when it starts to become out of line. |
Rated On: November 8, 2021 2:28 am |
Rated By: uguZyt |
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Comments: I agree with this solution to talk to your supervisors or those doing the flirting to try and resolve the issue. They should not have to feel uncomfortable and it is a professional space, so it should not be ignored. |
Rated On: November 6, 2023 4:10 am |
Rated By: upaMyb |
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