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Case: Girl Drama
I have five girls in my after care program that can't seem to get along. I have split them into different groups and they always seem to mess with each other. All the girls have been talked to by the principal about bullying and their parents were involved but they continue to bother each other and say rude comments. I don't know what to do next.
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
When you say that you separated these girls into different groups do you mean that you moved them far from each other? Just because they are in different groups does not mean they will not come into contact with each other. I think you should try to make sure that they do not go near each other, and if they do then you need to set out some type of consequence for them. If they say something rude maybe they will lose playing with their favorite toy or they cant use their phone. You could also try to figure out the root of the problem. Maybe pull each one aside individually and ask them what the problem is. |
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| Rated On: February 26, 2018 3:22 am |
| Rated By: uDaHeD |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
| Rated On: February 28, 2018 1:27 am |
| Rated By: agedyQ |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution! I personally know what girl drama is like and we always find a way! |
| Rated On: July 2, 2018 2:25 pm |
| Rated By: Markelle Maddock |
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| Comments: I think pulling each of the students aside is a great idea to understand why they are not getting along. I'm not sure that forcing them to stay out of contact with each other is the best approach, but I do think that if they are bullying one another, separation is a good tactic and if they come in contact with each other simply to bully the other, then removing a toy or having the child take a break by themselves is good consequence for their actions. |
| Rated On: July 5, 2018 8:35 am |
| Rated By: Rochelle Young |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
| Rated On: October 2, 2018 9:39 pm |
| Rated By: DuTepy |
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| Comments: Start by separating them |
| Rated On: October 3, 2018 8:18 pm |
| Rated By: eqeJaQ |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. Consequences should be out into place and should be followed when a student breaks the rules or procedures. I would also continue staying in contact with parents and administration. Bullying is a big deal and most schools should have anti-bullying policies and consequences already in place. In addition I would document all incidents and all conversations with the students. |
| Rated On: October 6, 2018 4:24 pm |
| Rated By: zazyny |
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| Comments: Making sure that the girls don't go near each other and face consequences for doing so or saying rude things to each other is the best way to go until the root of the issue is resolved. Asking them each individually what the problem is is definitely the best way to get the answer. |
| Rated On: October 7, 2018 10:05 pm |
| Rated By: JyGeLe |
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| Comments: Good idea. |
| Rated On: October 9, 2018 1:45 am |
| Rated By: pagyDa |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution and would do this if I were in this situation! |
| Rated On: October 11, 2018 12:45 am |
| Rated By: ugyqyd |
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| Comments: Consequences are crucial when it comes to girl problems. |
| Rated On: October 11, 2018 11:24 pm |
| Rated By: XuBety |
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| Comments: In this situation, I would use this situation. |
| Rated On: October 12, 2018 7:59 pm |
| Rated By: yreQan |
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| Comments: This seems like an appropriate solution since it addresses the problem directly. |
| Rated On: October 12, 2018 10:04 pm |
| Rated By: byRyLe |
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| Comments: Keeping them apart would help solve the problem. Giving consequences as you suggested will hold them accountable. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2018 10:27 pm |
| Rated By: yJuhuv |
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| Comments: Keeping them separate won't solve the issue of bullying, the root cause needs to be addressed |
| Rated On: October 15, 2018 12:29 am |
| Rated By: aVugaG |
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| Comments: talking to the girls individually can allow for anonymity and truth because the girls won't be pressured by their friends |
| Rated On: October 15, 2018 1:58 am |
| Rated By: WapeHu |
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| Comments: i agree |
| Rated On: October 18, 2018 3:03 am |
| Rated By: Carla Crumb |
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| Comments: I love this! |
| Rated On: November 9, 2018 9:13 pm |
| Rated By: aBezuz |
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| Comments: This is excellent- finding the root of the problem by speaking to the girls individually can be quite helpful. |
| Rated On: February 19, 2019 6:27 pm |
| Rated By: aByveM |
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| Comments: Consequences for their actions are necessary. |
| Rated On: February 20, 2019 1:20 pm |
| Rated By: Tiffany Foti |
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| Comments: I think this is a good solution. |
| Rated On: February 23, 2019 12:19 am |
| Rated By: zuMuGe |
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| Comments: I think speaking to the girls separate may shed new light in this good idea |
| Rated On: February 23, 2019 7:48 pm |
| Rated By: ysyPep |
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| Comments: I find this solution useful. I agree with this feedback. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 4:20 pm |
| Rated By: Nicole Morris |
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| Comments: Agree with this response. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2019 11:37 pm |
| Rated By: Ryduga |
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| Rated On: February 25, 2019 1:00 am |
| Rated By: ZyQeHy |
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| Comments: this is actually a really good idea! ill use this in the future. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2019 4:39 am |
| Rated By: eRuWaX |
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| Comments: The girls may try to deflect during this time. |
| Rated On: July 1, 2019 11:31 pm |
| Rated By: pehute |
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| Comments: I agree if they are consequences the girls might stop and try to behave. |
| Rated On: July 7, 2019 8:06 pm |
| Rated By: Brenda Perez Prieto |
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| Comments: This is very true! make sure the disruption is stopped 100%. |
| Rated On: July 7, 2019 11:24 pm |
| Rated By: ynepyH |
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| Comments: I agree, try to find out what the actual problem is and keep them as far away from one another as possible & implement consequences if they continue to bother one another. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2019 9:47 pm |
| Rated By: HuraHu |
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| Comments: I agree, just because they are in separate groups does not mean that they will not come in contact with another. Setting rules and following through would help too. I would also pull them aside and talk to the girls one on one too. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2019 11:40 pm |
| Rated By: Amber Hyatt |
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| Comments: I think these are good ideas. |
| Rated On: October 20, 2019 7:48 pm |
| Rated By: Anastasia Stampoulis |
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| Comments: I agree, give them all space from each other to cool off and think about what happened. |
| Rated On: October 21, 2019 3:00 am |
| Rated By: aLaGuv |
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| Comments: separating them will not bring eace to your classroom. it might just increase gossip and resentment |
| Rated On: February 23, 2020 9:38 pm |
| Rated By: Vanessa Tuliau |
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| Comments: good |
| Rated On: February 23, 2020 11:01 pm |
| Rated By: ejyqeq |
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| Comments: I agree with asking them individually |
| Rated On: February 24, 2020 2:39 am |
| Rated By: yHuDav |
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| Comments: I feel this is the best possible solution. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2020 3:04 am |
| Rated By: Janson Gunn |
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| Comments: These issues can be very sensitive to handle so individualized questioning is the best route. |
| Rated On: March 13, 2020 3:26 am |
| Rated By: vuByda |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
| Rated On: October 15, 2020 9:20 pm |
| Rated By: Angela Mitchell |
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| Comments: I would do this. |
| Rated On: October 17, 2020 3:36 pm |
| Rated By: Dyvuqa |
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| Comments: I agree that I would talk to them individually but if you have already had them moved out of groups, maybe the next step is to have them moved to a different class, or section if possible. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2020 11:46 pm |
| Rated By: beVuLu |
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| Comments: Keeping them separated completely is the best solution. |
| Rated On: October 19, 2020 3:17 am |
| Rated By: eMuQah |
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| Comments: Agreed, it is important to separate them properly so there is little to no chance for this behavior to continue. |
| Rated On: March 8, 2021 4:35 am |
| Rated By: pydara |
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| The suggested solution is original |
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| Comments: This is a great solution. Separating them is for the best. |
| Rated On: October 28, 2021 7:29 pm |
| Rated By: aRaPuB |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is original |
Yes
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| Comments: I think hearing all sides of the story is a good solution to try and figure out a long-term solution |
| Rated On: November 1, 2021 3:17 am |
| Rated By: yhedyZ |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is original |
Yes
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| Comments: I think this is a great idea as just removing students from the same group doesn’t always work and most times they need to be actually distanced |
| Rated On: November 14, 2022 1:01 am |
| Rated By: muWyZy |
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