Home | How It Works | Stats Login | Register         Case: Which parent wins? I have a student who's parents fight over who gets to pick up the child. The child never knows who to go with because they make him feel bad. Who do I let the child go with? And how can I make this stop? Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!) I would talk to the parents and let them know how the kid is feeling and how their fights are affecting him. They might take your words in consideration. Another way is planning a pick up schedule that you, the kid, and parents have and follow.