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Case: Death of a Student's Parent
A student of mine just lost their father suddenly. They are typically very well-behaved and eager to learn. Since the passing, this student has had many outburst and is defiant. I feel bad punishing this student because I don't want to cause them any more distress. I can't continue to have this student misbehave, but I also don't want to hurt their feelings. This is a new situation for me and any help would be appreciated.
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
The loss of anyone is difficult and everyone grieves differently. I would not punish the student but make sure the student is aware that you are there to help them as well as counselors and other resources. In this time im sure the student is not worried about school as depending on the relationship with their father the students entire world has been torn apart. Allow some time for healing and just keep helping the student and possibly reach out to mom or other guardian to ensure they are aware. |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. I would let the student know their are people they can talk to, and give them some time to heal rather than punish them right away. |
| Rated On: October 14, 2019 7:42 pm |
| Rated By: aHaQaj |
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| Comments: I agree, Different people process things differently. Maybe just allow time, and be present. |
| Rated On: October 16, 2019 12:41 am |
| Rated By: uPuhuP |
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| Comments: i agree |
| Rated On: October 21, 2019 12:21 am |
| Rated By: ZySaje |
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| Comments: I agree with this solution. |
| Rated On: February 21, 2020 2:02 pm |
| Rated By: Amber Hyatt |
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| Comments: This is a very hard subject to deal with but given the tragic circumstances i think this is a great solution. |
| Rated On: February 24, 2020 2:37 am |
| Rated By: ynepyH |
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| Comments: I like this solution |
| Rated On: July 1, 2020 2:32 am |
| Rated By: yzubyz |
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| Comments: This is really good advice. My husband passed in January and my son acted out a little. His teacher was on it and noticed the change. I sat down with the principal, counselor, and teacher to figure out the best plan of action. For us, it ended up being grief counseling. Every child is different, but absolutely do not punish them. |
| Rated On: October 18, 2020 10:59 pm |
| Rated By: beVuLu |
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| Comments: agreed |
| Rated On: October 25, 2021 8:41 pm |
| Rated By: TyNede |
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| Comments: I agree, the student needs to be able to go through the grieving process. |
| Rated On: April 13, 2022 2:15 am |
| Rated By: juRuqa |
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| Comments: i agree |
| Rated On: April 17, 2022 3:17 am |
| Rated By: aNabaR |
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| Comments: Very helpful! |
| Rated On: February 23, 2023 1:27 pm |
| Rated By: yraXuG |
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