Home | How It Works | Stats Login | Register         Case: Death of a Student's Parent A student of mine just lost their father suddenly. They are typically very well-behaved and eager to learn. Since the passing, this student has had many outburst and is defiant. I feel bad punishing this student because I don't want to cause them any more distress. I can't continue to have this student misbehave, but I also don't want to hurt their feelings. This is a new situation for me and any help would be appreciated. Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!) This would be an extremely sensitive situation to resolve. Maybe the guidance counselor could help and become more involved. If the student is having a bad day than the counselor can be an extra adult for the student to talk to. Also, discuss the problem with the other parent in a very respectful way. Patience would be key because this is a life altering tragedy.