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  Case: Parents demand student progress when running into them in public
During my first internship I ran into the parents of one of my students while shopping at a grocery store. They were very involved parents so they knew who I was from all of the meetings I had sat in on with them and my CT. I politely said hello as I passed them and kept on shopping. I ran into them 2 aisles over and they asked me how their child was doing in class, and what grade their students had received on 2 tests that week. They also wanted to know how there child was doing socially because there had been some issues with a few other students. I said there child was a delight to work with, but those questions would be better answered by the teacher. They became instantly angry and actually followed me to another isle still asking questions. I explained to them that I was the intern and I wasn't even allowed to discuss anything with them and to talk to the teacher Monday. I quickly walked away to the other side of the store, left my cart, and walked out. I told my CT about it, but she didn't seem concerned. Should I have told my college supervisor about it, and should I have handled it differently?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I agree that you should not be sharing the student's progress with the parents in that setting. If you feared for your safety because of their anger, it is smart to leave the store. I personally would have finished my shopping because that is a normal, human thing to do and the parents should have backed off. I think it is important to tell your CT for the fact that the parents became angry when you didn't give them any information.
 
     
     
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Comments: I think that if feeling threatened, you were right to leave the store and report it to the CT and the college supervisor.
Rated On: February 18, 2020 3:34 pm
Rated By: Michelle Cummings