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  Case: Death of a Student's Parent
A student of mine just lost their father suddenly. They are typically very well-behaved and eager to learn. Since the passing, this student has had many outburst and is defiant. I feel bad punishing this student because I don't want to cause them any more distress. I can't continue to have this student misbehave, but I also don't want to hurt their feelings. This is a new situation for me and any help would be appreciated.
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
Communicate to the student that you are there for them and will be there if they need to talk. Tell them that although they are going through something right now, they are not allowed to act defiantly in the classroom and go against the classroom rules. These outbursts are probably due to an influx in emotion, so give them the opportunity to go to a "safe place" in the classroom when they are feeling overwhelmed. Instead of having an outburst that disrupts others, let them go to to a spot in the room to gather their emotions and join the class again. Obviously, this isn't something that can't be in their safe space all day but hopefully they get back in the groove of things and know that you care. Also, have them get in touch with the guidance counselor to help with the grief.
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: This is a very hard subject to deal with but given the tragic circumstances i think this is a great solution.
Rated On: February 24, 2020 2:39 am
Rated By: ynepyH
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: agreed, always have a quiet place in the classroom
Rated On: October 25, 2021 8:43 pm
Rated By: TyNede