Home | How It Works | Stats Login | Register         Case: Stemming Children with ESE love to Stem and they like to do it on people or a hard object. They like to feel lots of pressure, I wanted to know if it would be appropriate to give them massage vibrator that they could use on their skin or body? Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!) I would not give anything electronic to a student. Many students have special items that they enjoy stimming with such as a special wand or pen or toy. Often times a student needs to have some sort of emotional attachment to it as well.