Home | How It Works | Stats Login | Register         Case: Stemming Children with ESE love to Stem and they like to do it on people or a hard object. They like to feel lots of pressure, I wanted to know if it would be appropriate to give them massage vibrator that they could use on their skin or body? Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!) That is up to the teacher. I would also discuss that with the parent to make sure they are okay with it.