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The parents come to me and tell me that they have no control over their student. They tell me they cannot force him to do work or to even be respectful in class. The whole conversation the student is playing on his phone laughing at his parents.
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
There are rules expected to be followed in the classroom and when those expectations are not met, consequences follow. I would explain that this students grade will suffer if the work is not completed. It sounds harsh but the same expectations must be kept for all students. Teachers should be understanding and there can be exceptions for example if an email is sent about a death in the family, a divorce, an emergency, etc. Deadlines may be extended and extra credit opportunities may be given but if this behavior is bad enough to warrant a meeting, these parents may need to seek professional counsel.
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: This is true, however, if there are underlying issues then this will not work.
Rated On: October 16, 2020 9:14 pm
Rated By: GebyXu
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Could potentially cause problems with referring to professionals if not done correctly
Rated On: October 17, 2020 3:01 pm
Rated By: Dyvuqa
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: Could be better
Rated On: October 19, 2020 3:12 am
Rated By: edudyp
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: This is not an appropriate solution. Yes, rules need to be followed but if the student is acting out in class and towards their parents, then perhaps there is an alternate reason why it is happening, such as an underlying condition.
Rated On: October 20, 2020 2:21 am
Rated By: Kelly Brown
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: Not entirely relevant
Rated On: March 3, 2021 2:18 am
Rated By: Olivia Crumpacker
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I would never do this! This is wrong!
Rated On: June 29, 2021 6:00 pm
Rated By: MeMuXu
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I would never do this! This is wrong!
Rated On: October 26, 2021 12:59 am
Rated By: aVuLyX
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: This is a solution that I would use in this situation. Students need to be respected, but when there is an ongoing issue with no change, there will need to be outside resources to help. Professional counseling could have a positive impact on this student's future.
Rated On: October 26, 2021 7:19 pm
Rated By: aRaPuB
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Explaining that the student's grades will suffer will just dishearten the parents even further. Working with them to get to a viable solution would be harder, but it will be a more meaningful way to find a way to correct the student's behavior.
Rated On: October 31, 2021 3:18 am
Rated By: aseTyD
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: I do not agree with solution. Not every student is the same and not everyone should be treated and their situations handled the same way.
Rated On: October 31, 2021 3:32 pm
Rated By: mymaVy
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case No
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: If I were in this situation I wouldn’t use this solution.
Rated On: November 1, 2021 12:37 am
Rated By: karagan murfin
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I agree. However there may be more that is needed with this solution.
Rated On: November 12, 2022 4:30 pm
Rated By: uNaBuT
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Thanks for sharing, this is a good idea.
Rated On: November 12, 2022 10:37 pm
Rated By: Adrianna Gill
 
     
     
  Rating
The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) No
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement No
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue No
The suggested solution is original No
Comments: Overall I don't think it's a good idea to punish a student through their grade. Obviously this student is having a difficult time adjusting to expectations so it might be best to create a system that takes away something the student values instead.
Rated On: July 23, 2023 11:33 pm
Rated By: zyzuDy