Home | How It Works | Stats Login | Register         Case: Stemming Children with ESE love to Stem and they like to do it on people or a hard object. They like to feel lots of pressure, I wanted to know if it would be appropriate to give them massage vibrator that they could use on their skin or body? Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!) Ask the parents first about the massage vibrator. You don't want to provide the student wiht something that the student doesn't need or the parent's don't want.