Home | How It Works | Stats Login | Register         Case: Death of a Student's Parent A student of mine just lost their father suddenly. They are typically very well-behaved and eager to learn. Since the passing, this student has had many outburst and is defiant. I feel bad punishing this student because I don't want to cause them any more distress. I can't continue to have this student misbehave, but I also don't want to hurt their feelings. This is a new situation for me and any help would be appreciated. Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!) I would first let the student know that you are there for them during their time of need. I would explain to the student that although you understand their recent struggle, it is important for them to behave positively. If there are mental health resources available at the school, I would suggest that the students speaks with them to help process their loss.