Home | How It Works | Stats Login | Register         Case: Death of a Student's Parent A student of mine just lost their father suddenly. They are typically very well-behaved and eager to learn. Since the passing, this student has had many outburst and is defiant. I feel bad punishing this student because I don't want to cause them any more distress. I can't continue to have this student misbehave, but I also don't want to hurt their feelings. This is a new situation for me and any help would be appreciated. Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!) Children cannot process grief the way adults do. Pain and sadness often are exhibited as anger and frustration. I would offer the guidance department as a healthy alternate to outbursts and definitely talk to the student and tell them you are there for them if they want to talk. More than likely the issue will get better with time.