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Case: Unclear Future
In my many years of teaching high school, I have seen all types of students. Noora, a student from Pakistan, was one of the most special students. She was definitely one of the most intelligent I have had. She also had an extraordinary work ethic and interpersonal skills. When other students in her class had difficulty with any subject, Noora was there to help them. I thought she had a very bright future. Knowing her strong skills and knowledge in math and sciences, I thought she would go to a prestigious university. One day I decided to talk to Noora about her future plans and I was shocked by what I heard. She said that two months after graduating from high school, she was going to get married to the son of a family friend. She did not seem very disturbed by this. I went to talk to Noora's parents to explain to them what a great student she was and why they should reconsider their decision to marry her at such a young age. I told them that what they were doing was unfair. The very next day Noora's family sent a formal complaint letter to my school principal stating that I was being disrespectful their culture, and that it is their business to decide their daughter's future, not the teacher's. I was devastated when the principal informed me about this. I thought I was being a good teacher. I still do not want to give up on Noora's future. What should I do?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
I think the approach taken, though with good intentions, was not considerate of their culture. Instead of telling them what they should or should not consider with their daughter (which could be taken the wrong way by any parents from any culture) does not take into consideration their reasoning and beliefs. I would have simply mentioned her potential and possible opportunities that she may also be interested in after high school. But first and foremost I would want to respect their cultural beliefs and Noora's wishes. |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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| Comments: The best approach is to respect their culture. The teacher is allowed to present to them an alternative by telling them how smart Noora is, but he should not directly tell them what to do. |
| Rated On: October 15, 2014 12:59 am |
| Rated By: ySaryN |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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| Comments: I agree that having a conference with the parents and extolling their daughters virtues and intelligence would have been an acceptable decision. It is disrespectful and not the place of the teacher to express their negative views about a parents decision about their child. |
| Rated On: October 17, 2014 12:17 am |
| Rated By: Denise Lukacik |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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| Comments: I completely agree. It is not the teachers place to be so disrespectful to her family. |
| Rated On: October 21, 2014 10:32 pm |
| Rated By: yVuLyR |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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| Comments: This is a great solution and one that I would use in my classroom! |
| Rated On: March 2, 2016 6:01 am |
| Rated By: uBybuz |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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Yes
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| Rated On: October 8, 2017 9:39 pm |
| Rated By: Nick |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
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| The suggested solution is original |
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| Comments: Respecting the culture and beliefs is most important. |
| Rated On: October 8, 2018 2:56 pm |
| Rated By: uQuJyh |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is relevant to the case |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue |
Yes
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| The suggested solution is original |
Yes
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| Comments: This solution also addresses the problem quite well. |
| Rated On: October 31, 2021 7:58 am |
| Rated By: aPeQyG |
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