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  Case: pushy parents
There was a student in my class who had very overly involved parents. They insisted that their daughter stay after school three days a week to do extra tutoring with me even though she was already at the top of the class and did not need the extra help. they would also email me several times during the day wanting updates on how their daughter was doing. This was eating up huge portions of my time that I needed to spend with other students who need extra help. What would be a good way to deal with this situation.
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
In the beginning of the year, you need to lay out very clear guidelines for your parents. For instance:
I provide after-school help for students who are not meeting standards.
I will return emails within a 24 hour time period.
I am available to meet with parents during the following hours to discuss your child's progress. Ect...
It is always easier to prevent a problem than fix one. In the meantime, make a document that illustrates exactly how the student is doing in your class. In addition, add all of the ways you differentiate instruction for her and other students at her level. I like to send home weekly reports that show parents how their child is performing. It is simple to create an excel chart that will make graphs and charts for you. Parents just need constant reassurance that their child is doing ok.
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: I agree to set these limits at the beginning of the year. That way they cant say you made this up for them.
Rated On: March 9, 2015 5:06 pm
Rated By: ZutyMa
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: If I were in this situation, I would do exactly this. Great solution!
Rated On: June 30, 2015 10:52 pm
Rated By: TaPeBu
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Some really good suggestions! I agree with implementing this at the beginning of the year.
Rated On: July 6, 2015 12:58 am
Rated By: WuXySy
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: This is what I would do
Rated On: October 16, 2016 6:20 pm
Rated By: sazaXa
 
     
     
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The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) Yes
The suggested solution is relevant to the case Yes
The suggested solution is reasonable (easy) for the teacher to implement Yes
The suggested solution is likely to solve the problem/issue Yes
The suggested solution is original Yes
Comments: Making sure expectations for students, parents, and teachers are clear is imperative.
Rated On: February 20, 2023 10:29 pm
Rated By: Caitlin Ferland