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Case: Too close for comfort
My son attends a different middle school from where I teach. I have a close friend who happens to teach at my son's middle school. She has been taking it upon herself to discuss my son's grades with his teachers, even though my friend DOES NOT teach my son. I am VERY bothered by this. I don't feel like, ethically, it is any of her business to discuss my son's academic affairs unless I bring it up in conversation and ask for her input. How should I handle this?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
It is definitely against the code of ethics. Unless your friend works directly with your child, that teacher has no right to discuss the grades with her especially if you haven't given consent for this to happen. I would definitely talk to the teacher first to let her know that you would like for her to stop discussing those grades or you will take it to a higher authority. I honestly think speaking to the teacher will solve this problem though. |
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| Comments: Very true! I would be bothered by it as well! |
| Rated On: March 11, 2015 11:55 am |
| Rated By: yQaran |
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| Comments: Speaking with his teachers and letting them know that you would prefer them to discuss your sons progress with you only is a good way to handle the situation without offending your friend. |
| Rated On: March 13, 2015 1:49 am |
| Rated By: uPaVuT |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this. |
| Rated On: October 17, 2015 2:27 pm |
| Rated By: seqeJe |
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| Comments: I think that speaking to this friend will help the situation as well. She may not realize her lapse in judgment and stop right there with this one conversation. |
| Rated On: October 19, 2015 12:02 am |
| Rated By: ezyMyM |
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| Comments: I agree. Speaking with the teacher is the best bet. |
| Rated On: October 19, 2015 2:47 am |
| Rated By: Dan G |
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| Comments: Definitely speak directly to her since you yourself don't work at that school. |
| Rated On: October 17, 2016 3:32 am |
| Rated By: Raven B |
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| Comments: I agree with the solution as the friend should not be speaking about the student unless they are working with the student. I think that speaking with the teacher and informing them that if they can speak with you about the student and that if the friend does try to speak with the teacher then the teacher can politely inform them that they ethically cannot speak about the student of their grades. |
| Rated On: February 25, 2017 5:15 am |
| Rated By: aHeXud |
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| Comments: Agreed, he friend has no right to that type of information. |
| Rated On: March 6, 2017 3:55 am |
| Rated By: aDuZyJ |
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| Comments: Agreed!! |
| Rated On: July 9, 2017 9:31 pm |
| Rated By: RuWeWe |
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| Comments: I agree with the solution, it is not at all the other teachers responsibilities to even know your son's grades, and you need to speak with them directly. If there's not work however, then you do need to address a higher authority such as an administrator about the issue |
| Rated On: October 16, 2017 12:27 am |
| Rated By: duPuSa |
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| Comments: I'd talk to your friend and advise her that though you appreciate her intent with helping that it's not necessary and you'd like it a lot better if she'd refrain from doing that. |
| Rated On: October 17, 2017 2:21 pm |
| Rated By: Ramos |
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| Comments: I agree. In this situation this needs to be handled head on. |
| Rated On: February 26, 2018 4:10 am |
| Rated By: LyruPa |
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| Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this |
| Rated On: February 28, 2018 1:09 am |
| Rated By: agedyQ |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I agree with discussing the matter with his teacher first and then proceeding from there. |
| Rated On: October 20, 2019 5:42 pm |
| Rated By: LeDyqa |
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| The suggested solution is respectful of the individual (student) |
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| Comments: I agree that this goes against the code of ethics and should be discussed with the teacher. |
| Rated On: October 21, 2019 2:00 am |
| Rated By: LyWuLy |
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