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Case: Talking like a white girl
I work at an inner-city school and I am the only white person in the classroom. Whenever I have a behavior issue with a student, I follow our school guidelines. When discussing it with my mentor teacher and team leader, they always respond that I need to quit talking to my students like a white girl. They inform me that my students come from the ghetto and sometimes it is necessary to be loud and "ghetto" to get respect from students. I don't agree with this. Any suggestions of how to get respect from my students and have them follow the rules of the classroom?
Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!)
Well I'm an African American teacher, but I'm very small AND I look like I could be one of my students.Students initially thought they would be able to run all over me because of my size. I was one that never liked to raise my voice at my students, but what I have realized is that it took about two times for me to actually drop to my students level and tell them that they didn't know who they were talking to like that, and once I showed them I wasn't about to let them treat me any type of way, it really helped. I'm not saying get "ghetto" with them because then they will take you for a joke, but sometimes you have to show them that you aren't going to let them disrespect you. |
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Comments: Thank you very much. Your comments were great. |
Rated On: March 10, 2015 6:53 pm |
Rated By: Candace |
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Comments: I agree with you 100 percent, showing them who is boss and making them realize you will not put up with their attitude. I would do this in my classroom. |
Rated On: July 1, 2015 9:47 pm |
Rated By: TaPeBu |
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Comments: Good example. |
Rated On: October 3, 2015 4:46 pm |
Rated By: puQuZu |
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Comments: I agreed with this solution. This teacher needs to show them who is the teacher. |
Rated On: October 16, 2015 4:18 pm |
Rated By: buHeNy |
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Comments: I think that this solution is exactly what I would do in this situation. It is important for students to know that they cannot walk all over you. |
Rated On: October 17, 2015 9:12 pm |
Rated By: ezuXuD |
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Comments: . |
Rated On: November 3, 2015 8:33 pm |
Rated By: yDyjuB |
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Comments: Show them you are in charge |
Rated On: March 6, 2016 1:23 am |
Rated By: uPuneq |
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Comments: This is absolutely right. Sometimes yelling is not needed. |
Rated On: March 6, 2016 4:58 pm |
Rated By: anaXan |
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Comments: This is a good comment simply because, its short and sweet and hits alls the problems in the head. you DONT have to get "gehetto" but simple make your presence known that you are not their buddy but an authority figure who commands respect. |
Rated On: March 7, 2016 12:59 am |
Rated By: uBuDub |
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Comments: You are absolutely right! By showing the student that they cannot disrespect you and that you are just as much a human as they are, you are definitely taking the time to teach them how to properly treat others. |
Rated On: October 15, 2016 11:34 pm |
Rated By: ematen |
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Comments: This is a great solution to this case and is very useful. |
Rated On: October 16, 2016 8:17 pm |
Rated By: zevuBa |
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Comments: Yes! Do not turn yourself into a joke. This solution was stated with such poise, and I am glad you shared your experience to back up your solution. |
Rated On: October 17, 2016 2:15 am |
Rated By: Raven B |
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Comments: Congratulations on taking command of the room. It can be difficult to understand different tendencies of students and appropriate ways to approach certain situations. Getting "ghetto" could help but the potential to make the situation worse is greater than just holding the "ghetto" and raising the stern characteristics which will yield respect. |
Rated On: February 26, 2017 3:49 am |
Rated By: etyWys |
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Comments: This is another good take on the situation. |
Rated On: March 5, 2017 7:02 pm |
Rated By: uheVaX |
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Comments: Great suggestion! |
Rated On: March 6, 2017 2:40 am |
Rated By: uhuQyM |
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Comments: This is a good solution. |
Rated On: July 19, 2017 6:29 pm |
Rated By: Savannah Lynn |
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Comments: great solution. I agree that it is probably in appropriate to talk in the way they are asking you to, But it is okay to be firm. The students will respect you more and then you can move on from there. |
Rated On: October 7, 2017 3:18 pm |
Rated By: napyze |
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Comments: This is very true. No matter what the circumstance, the students need to know who's in charge. They're always going to try to get away with more, but it's important to stay consistent with rules. |
Rated On: October 9, 2017 8:30 pm |
Rated By: aduNaQ |
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Comments: I agree, I would do this! |
Rated On: October 12, 2017 9:24 pm |
Rated By: Lavede |
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Comments: Sometimes it is important to show them that you expect to be respected. |
Rated On: October 15, 2017 11:08 pm |
Rated By: hepasy |
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Comments: Standing up for yourself and getting the stern voice going can help the student understand who is in charge. Great input! I would use this if I were in this situation. |
Rated On: October 16, 2017 12:50 am |
Rated By: eHuPas |
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Comments: Thank you for this response! |
Rated On: February 20, 2018 12:34 am |
Rated By: uDyJeZ |
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Comments: Great post! |
Rated On: February 21, 2018 5:13 pm |
Rated By: uJyGep |
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Comments: This is helpful |
Rated On: February 24, 2018 11:54 pm |
Rated By: upyWyH |
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Comments: Couldn't have said it better myself! |
Rated On: February 24, 2018 11:57 pm |
Rated By: epuMat |
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Comments: I really liked this solution! It was original and helpful and had good insight into the situation. I would use this advice. |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 3:36 am |
Rated By: Samantha Rey |
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Comments: i agree with this solution |
Rated On: February 25, 2018 6:14 pm |
Rated By: uXysej |
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Comments: I agree with you completely. Teachers need to remember they are the ones in charge and need to speak to their students in a professional and stern manner during these situations. |
Rated On: July 5, 2018 11:48 pm |
Rated By: zeXyBy |
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Comments: Showing them you won't tolerate disrespect is a key solution. |
Rated On: October 8, 2018 3:02 pm |
Rated By: uQuJyh |
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Rated On: October 9, 2018 1:13 am |
Rated By: pagyDa |
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Comments: I like this solution because this teacher showed her students that she was expecting respect from them. |
Rated On: October 10, 2018 11:29 pm |
Rated By: WyVeTu |
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Comments: I agree, respect must be earned and they will test you before giving respect out. |
Rated On: November 27, 2018 12:18 am |
Rated By: ybabaJ |
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Rated On: February 20, 2019 12:14 am |
Rated By: baJeTe |
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Comments: It so hard to set that respect once it goes but I'm so glad you found a way. |
Rated On: February 21, 2019 3:44 am |
Rated By: ysyPep |
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Comments: I would do this if I were in this situation! |
Rated On: February 21, 2019 7:44 pm |
Rated By: GeQapy |
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Comments: Making sure your students know they cannot take advantage of you because you talk a certain way is very important. |
Rated On: July 2, 2019 1:33 am |
Rated By: pehute |
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Comments: This is a great solution and gives appropriate suggestions and uses examples from personal experience. |
Rated On: July 7, 2019 3:53 pm |
Rated By: yJyLep |
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Comments: I agree all students should be respectful towards their teachers and establishing that is important for yourself as a teacher. |
Rated On: October 14, 2019 9:09 pm |
Rated By: aHaQaj |
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Comments: I agree. I have witnessed several teachers that have a hard time managing a classroom because they have a hard time talking to the students. The ones teachers who have a harder time with this tend not to make it clear that respect is a big part of learning. |
Rated On: October 18, 2019 10:41 pm |
Rated By: Amber Hyatt |
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Comments: IF I were in this situation I would exactly do this. Being your self while having discipline I think is part of the job. |
Rated On: October 19, 2019 11:15 pm |
Rated By: upuneG |
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Comments: This solution is great! |
Rated On: February 19, 2020 8:52 pm |
Rated By: Torii Podmokly |
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Comments: I agree they need to know disrespect is not okay. |
Rated On: October 19, 2020 3:33 am |
Rated By: peXehu |
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Comments: Being stern can get the message across |
Rated On: October 29, 2021 5:21 am |
Rated By: Drew Brown |
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Comments: I agree. |
Rated On: April 2, 2022 3:47 am |
Rated By: uVeneH |
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Comments: Another example of being stern. Good. |
Rated On: November 11, 2022 8:59 pm |
Rated By: nemuLy |
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Comments: If I were in this situation, I would exactly do this. |
Rated On: April 3, 2023 3:42 am |
Rated By: uPanaS |
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