Home | How It Works | Stats Login | Register         Case: Am I a Boy or Girl? We have student who is a girl. She dresses out in the girls locker and by every document she is classified as a female. Recently, she dropped the "f" bomb in class and I spoke with her about this behavior and how it is unacceptable and offensive. I told her that it sounds so trashy coming from a young lady's mouth. Her response to me was, "I am not a girl." A few days later, she turned in an excuse and where her mother had written "her" or "she", she crossed out and put "him" or "he". What are some suggestions on how to handle this? Because it is clear that her parents are unaware of this situation. Solution: (Rates are posted for this solution!) This situation would be something for the counselor to help with. I would contact the counselor and relate the story. I would then follow up with the counselor to discover the outcome or what you need to do as an educator. Contacting parents could create an uproar the student does not want.